this si not a personal dating add, though it sounds liek it, just need opinions from a female perspective. would you date a guy with a good personality, adn sense of humor, but he had a crappy retail job, no car, adn a cramped apartment?
2006-12-06 16:13:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why yes of course. Together we can reach the sky.
2006-12-06 16:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Bambi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't this mostly depend on what one wants from the guy? Why NOT date him? If the gal has any ideas of a long term relationship, then the "negative" comments would make one wonder how mature, (stabile) he is. His age is (in that case) an important factor not included. At least he (you) have an apartment & aren't living with mummy & daddy...truly difficult to give an opinion without further information. Date, yes. Long term--serious questions unless this kind of life style is something the gal could accept.
Edit: Seems many took this as would be considered a long term relationship; SORRY! I assumed you meant what you said. "Would you DATE.." Definitely. You sound like a very nice guy; so what it you don't have a car? You DO have a job & a place of your own. More than can be said for many.
2006-12-06 16:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so funny. You guys are all the same. When I met my husband....6 years ago. We ended up meeting at the stereotypical place...a bar.
I was really attracted to him. He was attracted to me. About 1 week into getting to know him I found out that he did not have a job at all. Lucky for him he was really good looking and had a great sense of humor. Great personality!!!! He was also renting a "cramped" room from another guy.
So, yes, I would start dating a guy with great sense of humor and a great personality...crappy retail job ..no car and a cramped apartment. The only thing my guy did have was a car.
NO job, no place!!!
It could happen man...keep your chin up....when the right girl comes along you will want more for yourself and her...AND you will get it!!!
Aim high!
2006-12-06 16:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If he was a good guy going through a rough time, and had other goals and aspirations, I would for sure. However, if he was just stuck in a rut and it didn't look like there was a way out, I would avoid him! I want to be with a responsible guy who has potential to be a forever mate. Someone with a lowend job and not desire to get out of it isn't going to be much use when there are bills to pay and mouths to feed. Plus, it just seems like the guy is lazy and has no drive to make something of himself, which is not an attractive feature in a man!
2006-12-06 16:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by mlle-fantine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS....does he have nothing yet becuz he's young, just started being independent & is in school?
or...
Is he a living a low life becuz he's un-educated, too lazy to look for a better job & too lazy to go back to school to earn a degree to have a better job & life? and that he has a crappy retail job becuz he has no education & no experience or has served time in jail & can't get hired becuz he was an ex-con or convicted felon?
THERE ARE DIFFERENCES in everything. Like I said, it all depends on his background. No woman wants a low life lazy guy with no direction in life. Good personality, good sense of humor or not. We dig deeper than that.
2006-12-06 16:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on his personality , see the thing that people fail to realize is that alot of people look at the outer beauty in a person. Are u felling a little neglected or rejected by certain women, then they are really not worth your time don't just settle believe u me there is someone for everyone. keep your head up
2006-12-06 16:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had some goals and was working toward them. Not if he was content living like that for the rest of his life. It is amazing what two people can achieve together. Much more than one person by them self.
2006-12-06 16:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god... how many times does it have to be said that it's not what you own that makes you great, it's your personality that does and I will tell you that you have more then some and should appreciate the fact that your not still living off of your parents... feel good about what you do have and and your person too... no woman will want you if you can't be secure with yourself first...
2006-12-06 16:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure i'd date a guy with a crappy job, no car, and a cramped apartment. i probably wouldn't marry one though.
2006-12-06 16:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by crimsonsky_bleedingheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'm sorry, but if anybody says no, they're just stuck up. Love has to do with personality...not money! Americans are so rich and snobby that we hardly even notice what counts anymore.
2006-12-06 16:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋