Alright, so, I really like this girl from my school. Before, it was just "hello" in the hallway, until last week I told her I liked her and wanted to get to know her better. She responded by saying she was a bit suprised, but said she wanted to get to know me better as well. She gave me her cell number and we've been texting and talking for a few days now. We've been talking about random topics, not really anything related to a relationship. I asked her out yesterday and she said yes, but I don't really know if she considers it a "date" or not. We're going out on Friday. I'm not sure if she wants to be in a relationship or if she's just looking for another friend out of me.
How can I figure out of she likes me?
What should I ask her?
Should I ask if she wants to be in a relationship with me?
2006-12-06 16:14:06 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, let me say that it's awesome that you had the courage to tell her how you felt! That's great!! I don't think on your first date you should ask to be in a relationship. It's a little soon. What you can do is on your date, you can imply that you want to be more than friends without words. You know, the basic stuff...looking into her eyes as she speaks, letting your knees touch as you sit together, laugh at her jokes, compliment her.... Then you'll be able to tell by your body language how she feels. Oh yeah, and pay for her, that's a big confirmation that it's a date. All the best! Good luck!
2006-12-06 16:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by shirah_life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are on the right track. Just be patient and wait for it. I know how itchy it is to just tell her how you feel because I have a crush too. Just go on a couple more outings and stuff and after 2 or 3 more, then ask but for now, keep going with the flow, you already got this first step down, getting that 1st date.
2006-12-06 16:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ratchet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you asked her out. Since she already knows you like her Im pretty sure she knows its a date. You have a date with her so just chill out until then. See how it goes if it seems like she is just treating you as a friend then she's just probly not that into you sorry darlin. Don't worry about being in a relationship unitl you can really read her. And she will let you know on friday so you just gotta be catching her signs. Don't worry it will be fine.
2006-12-06 16:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kallie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont rush it. Be her friend first. If you come on to fast she mite think your a bit too clingy. Get to know her more, Take her out to lunch and talk about the stuff you would talk about but add some questions that you mite wanna know about her.
Good Luck.
2006-12-06 16:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her. Go on that date with her on Friday and ask her how she feels about you. Tell her that you like her a lot and that you want it to become a formal relationship. Then ask her how she feels about it? Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2006-12-06 16:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat after me, I like you...I want to be in a relationship with you...do you feel the same way
2006-12-06 16:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by who said that? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait to worry about this stuff until after youve gone out on a date with her. if you really like her on the first date, see if she wants to go on another one with you. she won't go if she doesn't like you so it will be pretty easy to figure out.
2006-12-06 16:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by carbonatedcolor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a few dates with her, and then ask her to be your girlfriend, simple as that
2006-12-06 16:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by J R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u answered your own question... "Should I ask if she wants to be in a relationship with me?". make it clear though.. dont beat around the bush
2006-12-06 16:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth.Girls like it when you are honest with them.Maybe she feels the same way about you.
2006-12-06 16:17:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋