when being approached by a guy around your same age- that you've never met before. What would be your first opinion if he just came up to you and said You're a brat? or any other tease- but in a joking matter. Me and my friend are debating this... I think its a good way to get a conversation started lol and he thinks its horrible. Opinions
2006-12-06 16:28:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I would have to say it's not the best way to start a conversation but.... you would have to know her sense of humor. is she going to laugh it off or be insulted.. watch whom ever it is for a bit to get a feel for her personalty then aproach her... I think if you can pull it off and accepts the joke she would probably be a fun loving, easy going, down to earth type of chick... I think the best way to find out is to test it... I would use something other than brat though. and remember " It's not what you say but how you say it"
2006-12-06 16:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, lets face some facts. We all know when a guy is teasing when he says something mean just to flirt a little. So I am with you, g/f! I think its a fun way to get the conversation started. I am interested in what you said back to him. I think I would have said "Oh, if you only knew......" HA! Good luck!
2006-12-07 00:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by mysterymardi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is a good way to get a conversation started I don't mind being teased once in awhile it breaks the ice.
2006-12-07 00:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by kathmrc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calling anyone a brat is going to tick 'em off even if you were joking.
2006-12-07 00:30:54 · answer #4 · answered by Guess Who 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For a man to approach me with that type of remark would crush my centerpiece. I wouldn't take it likely and I wouldn't think he was worth my time. You did say Ladies, and Ladies don't respond to childish chit-chat..
2006-12-07 00:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be annoyed and think they were an immature idiot for not saying why they really came over, unless it was 2 bug e, in which case they shudda left me alone.
2006-12-07 00:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Luvley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well that would be lame if they said that.Cuz what if you take everything serious, you see, you have to be careful with the person you tease
2006-12-07 00:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ariel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT do it!!! I cannot empasize this enough!!! Although you know it would be a joke, there's a chance she does not, and she may react in a very bad way!
2006-12-07 00:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by crash 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am with your friend, its a horrible way ! What would you think if someone did that to you? :o(
2006-12-07 00:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion??? He is a jerk!! "dirt wad" also comes to mind......too harsh of an answer! you may just get slapped! or your " you know what" kicked!!!
Definitely NOT the way to "break the ice"...but GOOD way to "break your jaw!" LOL!
2006-12-07 00:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by photogram1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋