Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

2006-12-04 18:55:42 · 21 answers · asked by Bambi 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 18:54:28 · 13 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3 in Singles & Dating

So, I've been in love with this girl since the moment I saw her. And, to save all of you kind people some time, I'll fast forward eight years. I'm still in love with her. We are easily best friends.

I told her in high school my feelings, and of course, her reply wasn't exactly what I was hoping for. Yup, got the friend speech. But we've maintained our relationship and have stayed very close over all these years. We're now actually in our mid-20s. She has actually been married and has since divorced about a year ago.

So here's my question, my fellow yahoo question enthusiasts, what do I do? I'm in a state in my life right now that rejection, especially coming from this girl, would absolutely devestate me. I've loved this girl for eight years of my life and her giving me another let's be friends speech for the rest of our lives, would be more than a rejection. I just don't know what to do anymore.

2006-12-04 18:53:29 · 22 answers · asked by YeahThatsRight 2 in Singles & Dating

If you go with a married man, and are able to pull him away from his wife and marry him. why do you not think that some one else can"t do the same thing to him, after all you did. This just shows how weak or indeceisive he is.

2006-12-04 18:52:38 · 18 answers · asked by robug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Shy, bad, agressive, WHAT!!!!!

2006-12-04 18:51:25 · 22 answers · asked by Patrick H 2 in Singles & Dating

quickly make sure that our friends know we have either a new car, house,rugs,toys,tv or whatever it is...myself on the other hand dont really want anyone to know, I m happier keeping it to myself.

2006-12-04 18:47:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It makes me really nervous!!!

2006-12-04 18:46:38 · 16 answers · asked by Marinika 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband will agree to have a third child but is asking me to compromise on the length of time I nurse the baby. His complaint is that he doesn't get enough attention from me and my sex drive is low while I am pregnant and nursing. I have very strong beliefs about nursing a baby as long as I feel they need it. Not just nutritionally, but emotionally too. I nursed my 1st baby for 18 months and my 2nd for 2 years, because she was more needy. My husband says it's fair to ask me to wean the baby by a year if we have a third child. If the baby is ready at a year, I'm fine to stop then, but I don't want to commit to that in advance. Is this a fair compromise?

2006-12-04 18:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by MountainChick 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is only 14 and she is 5'9 and has a great body, but she still thinks shes ugly because no guy has ever asked her out or has liked her because she is so tall, she feels really bad because she is the only one at partys who dosen't get asked to dance and she is really, really genuinly kind hearted, standing up for people who have called her names and put her down, but she never gets noticed for these things.

2006-12-04 18:45:27 · 12 answers · asked by foamballs 1 in Friends

2006-12-04 18:43:45 · 12 answers · asked by Man on fire 1 in Singles & Dating

i know what he looks like, but im not really attracted to him, i just noticed a diffent spark on his face and his eyes that's why i texted him. turns out he was really fun to talk to, and because of him and me texting each other i did not commit suicide, i am happy and amused whenever he replies, he is a pot user, he habitually smokes marijuana but i dont mind that he is a great friend, he introduced me to bob marley and reggae even with ska and i terribly became happy
but now im seriously considering in stopping texting him, i dont have plans to let him see who i am, im not bad looking, but im very unusual and weird, i think things will change if he knows and sees me because im really a weird one, im afraid that if i let him see my face it could never be the same, im being selfish and all
but i have a terrible low self esteem,so im ending the friendship, its been almost a year, i feel bad about leaving all the friendship behind but then i know im not brave enough to face real people

2006-12-04 18:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

A guy i have been dating for two months now seemed like Mr Perfect but he's annoyed me alot lately. He never calls when he says he will and he will only txt if i txt him first. The last time i seen him he called me by his ex girlfriends name. He also stares at other women when we're out together. He also talks bout his ex's alot. What would you do if you was me?

2006-12-04 18:41:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having this problem where my fiance thinks i get angry all the time but infact i am just trying to express how i feel. He will say to me "dont talk to me like that thanks , I dont appreciate it" and it really hurts me when he says that cos sometimes your not angry at them initially but the only way to express is by being loud do you think i have a problem? He doesnt communicate with me about the problems he just says "i dont want to talk about it right now? We had this big argument on the weekend and he said he wants time alone he totally didnt want to talk about it should i wait for him to call me? its been 2 days now or should i call him what should i do?? :(

2006-12-04 18:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been going out since last 8 months.But till now we just kiss each other.And when he asks for smooching i dont let him..If i dont let him smooch will he respect me more?Or what shall i do?

But i afraid because i have heard from people that once a guy does all thi things before marriage he leaves that girl.
My bf isnt like that but still im scared

2006-12-04 18:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here's the problem. I love being single, and doing what I want to do. But it does get rather lonely, especially when it's been your way of life for far too long. And I don't think I'm an unattractive person, but I've gained some weight and stuff since I last was really dating. In turn, my self confidence has gone down. Basically this question is for you guys out there. What are some ways to attract guys, what do they like to see in girls when they're out. And I don't mean the obvious things. I just need some help easing back into the dating world without putting myself completely up for rejection. What are some things you don't like to see? I am only 19, and I've never really had a serious relationship so I guess I'm calling myself a newbie to this whole situation. Help? Anyone?

2006-12-04 18:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine (jordan) is telling this girl (amanda)that i hang out with all of his personal problems with this other girl he likes (carol). well jordan told amanda not to tell anybody about his problems with carol but amanda told me and one of my other friends. he's a good friend and i care about him more then i care for amanda how do i causally tell him not to trust her with his secrets?

2006-12-04 18:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A very close friend of mine, which i have liked since we started becoming friends happens to like (or love, not sure...) one of her friends. They have apperantly liked eachother for around the same time i have liked her.
The problem is that (besides my stupidity of blindly handing her my heart) i am very much a conservative with the old fashin and matured all to fast for my age and never told her anything. I stupidly when the "friends" latter and now that i want to do something about it, it may be to late. I think that she has and may like me a bit, but she sees him much more often than me. I have and keep trying to win her over.

When i told her how i felt for her she said she likes me as a friend.

Now, i have attempted to move on, but my heart laggs far behind and for it i suffer day and night.
Should i keep trying to sway her to like/love me or should i let it go? if so, how?

FYI. I think he does not realy love her, i believe that i love her like she loves him...

2006-12-04 18:34:27 · 7 answers · asked by IHateTrolls 2 in Singles & Dating

behde your back and she calls your house and tells you what should i do

2006-12-04 18:34:14 · 10 answers · asked by kustomkleen777 1 in Singles & Dating

If there are any guys out there who are successful with the ladies, tell me your tricks.
And, ladies, tell me what you would like guys to do, or something that they do, that you like.

I'm trying to get some feed back from both sexes. Thanks.

2006-12-04 18:33:42 · 7 answers · asked by TheSilverBeetles 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay this sounds fishy to me. I know this Paki man and ofcourse we had sex...great sex. He swears if he has too much sex that his lower back will hurt for 2 weeks. I swear I have never heard of such a thing. He says ask any Paki man and they will know what your talking about. Well it is not like I am going to walk up to some stranger paki man and ask them that question. So does anyone know is there any truth to this?

2006-12-04 18:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 in Singles & Dating

everyday with her bf and sometime 3 times a day when she was about 19 - 22 now she wit me and she 32 and she no way as sexual actually we havnt done it yet, she says thats cos it was then and her attitudes have changed should i worry cos i just wanna be like a rabbit with her cos i love and lust after her

2006-12-04 18:29:39 · 20 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Singles & Dating

Could you tell me how to kiss a girl? Are there any specific must-do's? I'm tall, how do I kiss shorter girls?

2006-12-04 18:29:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was checking the temp files on our computer and I found my guy had visited a whole lot of porn sites especially the ones with really young girls. I so shocked. I also found that he had visited many interracial sites and sites showing girls with really 'big' men. I dunno what to do. My guy has a really small organ and I think that is causing him to do that. Should I suggest he goes for counselling or what? We have been using a penis extender for some time now. I hope I havent caused this.

2006-12-04 18:29:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having a hard time figure out what I'm attracted to. I never really been with anybody or just too shy?

2006-12-04 18:28:32 · 5 answers · asked by Alexis I 1 in Singles & Dating

I dunno whats wrong with my father he always been a problem ,yesterday some guest was in our house and my dad asked me to do something in a very mean way its like he was challenging me to say no so I was lil pissed off and I kinda said few words to him in front of the guest. Later, he came to me and said “ what the hell is wrong with you, you got no respect for anybody not even ur own father,I gave you everything car.cell phone.college etc, and u don’t even give me any respect I don’t want money from you I don’t want anything but atleast show some respect and he was yelling” I said “ not because you gave me few things doesn’t mean im ur slave you could have asked me nicely im 20 for gods sake u should respect me as man I aint a kid” he got really really pissed off and started saying alots of things its like he wanted to say it for long time and now he got the chance , so he said” you don’t come stay with us as family u don’t come sit with us when your uncles here you think ur uncles

2006-12-04 18:27:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when a guy asks you out and says he'll pay for you what does this mean. i mean like to a movie or game or something.he also gives me heaps of eye contact when we are talking,laughs at some of the little things i say,overexaggerates when i nearly hurt him or something, and talks to me about our interests.He can become loud when talking to me or being around me and also moves closer. Then all of the sudden one day he starts avoiding me and now just recently he's talking to me again. does he like me.please someone answer my question coz i'm going crazy.

2006-12-04 18:26:08 · 20 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I want the breakup more than he because he's been using me. He is classic sociopath and used me until he broke me and I just got tired of his lying and masterful manipulation and his withholding of sex and intimacy. BUT, since I want him out of my house, I feel he may want to retaliate? How should I interact with him while he cleans out his belongings?

2006-12-04 18:25:57 · 6 answers · asked by On The Go 1 in Singles & Dating

mY BOYFRIEND AND I ARE IN OUR 30'S AND I HAVE NOTICED THAT MOST OF THE TIME WHEN WE GO TO HAVE SEX THAT HE ISNT FULLY ERECT! i CAN DO DIFFERANT THINGS AND HE WILL GET AN ERECTION BUT THEN IT GOES DOWN OR GOES DOWN WHILE WE ARE HAVING INTERCOURSE. iS IT ME AND HE ISNT TURNED ON OR COULD IT BE AN ERCTIAL DISFUNCTION?

2006-12-04 18:25:51 · 4 answers · asked by Kathy C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 18:25:18 · 26 answers · asked by Man on fire 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 18:25:17 · 19 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Marriage & Divorce