A very close friend of mine, which i have liked since we started becoming friends happens to like (or love, not sure...) one of her friends. They have apperantly liked eachother for around the same time i have liked her.
The problem is that (besides my stupidity of blindly handing her my heart) i am very much a conservative with the old fashin and matured all to fast for my age and never told her anything. I stupidly when the "friends" latter and now that i want to do something about it, it may be to late. I think that she has and may like me a bit, but she sees him much more often than me. I have and keep trying to win her over.
When i told her how i felt for her she said she likes me as a friend.
Now, i have attempted to move on, but my heart laggs far behind and for it i suffer day and night.
Should i keep trying to sway her to like/love me or should i let it go? if so, how?
FYI. I think he does not realy love her, i believe that i love her like she loves him...
2006-12-04 18:34:27 · 7 answers · asked by IHateTrolls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- You can't force her to love you no matter what you can do.
If you don't want to suffer more unnecessarily, you should move on.
2006-12-08 17:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen carefully man....u have 2 approach the girl immediately....n tell her how u feel...hold her hands...take her to a quite place where the other guy cant inturupt....n tell her how u feel about her n how long u felt like this...n tell her it hurts u to c u get hurt by him since u feel u2 were meant to be together.
Be quiet for a few minutes and c wat she says...listen carefully at what she thinks...n then say that her friendship means more to u than anythin....n u dont want to lose that, whatever her reply may be.
if things work out, then all is well...but if she says,she cant leave him at this stage, hold her hand and one on her shoulder and say, ure always there for her and will not stop loving her, if she ever changed her mind.
2006-12-05 02:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by medhruv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already done what you could by telling her your true feelings, shes going to have to get hurt by this other guy ( since you say you feel like he doesn't love her) you can express those feelings, and the best thing you are going to need to do is just be there if that does happen. And hope that she'll come to realize whats really best for her. ( Assuming that you are.)
2006-12-05 02:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by Kels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls may get annoyed if you keep on bugging them about it.
but if you really like her, it doesn't matter does it?
in your heart if you believe you have a chance keep on trying.
it's now or never, once in a life time opportunity.
if you give up now, would you regret it later?
you have to think about that.
but don't like pesture her about it.
or do something desperate with a boutique of flowers.
just be real sincere with her. like a gentlemen.simple
and something that will make you look better than your friend.
and somethings were not meant to be you know?
if it were meant to be it will be.
if you keep on trying, and nothing happens [remember patience] then forget about it.
its a slow process, it hurts, but time just goes on, and it's your job to catch up.
2006-12-05 02:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to hurt your feelings, but if she said she likes you only as a friend then leave it alone, you will only be setting yourself up to get extremly hurt. Move on find someone that you could be interested in. there are alot of fish in the sea and you will get hurt extremly if you dont hold yourself up and get strong enough to go on. You may be able to stay friends but this will probably make things worse for you. If you keep persuing her she willget angry and that could cause serious problems, not to metion hurt feelings.
2006-12-05 02:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she straight up told you that she likes you as a friend... If she did like you she would've been all over what you told her and would've told you the same stuff back. It's okay, just move on and she'll probably start realizing what she could've had.
2006-12-05 02:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not interested in you like that, no matter how much you love her. it also doesnt matter if he doesnt love her like you do...that doesnt change her feelings for you.
2006-12-05 02:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋