a friend of mine (jordan) is telling this girl (amanda)that i hang out with all of his personal problems with this other girl he likes (carol). well jordan told amanda not to tell anybody about his problems with carol but amanda told me and one of my other friends. he's a good friend and i care about him more then i care for amanda how do i causally tell him not to trust her with his secrets?
2006-12-04 18:37:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Time.....it's sometimes the best way to let someone find out about their friends and who they really are. If he's given enough time, he'll eventually figure out that this girl cant be trusted with his secrets because she'll slip up one day and he'll be right there to catch her in the act!!!
2006-12-04 18:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Shelton L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the phrase "whatever you don't know won't hurt you", that is so untrue. If you consider yourself a true friend to Jordan, I think that you should first ask Amanda; why are you talking someone else business? Make sure that you are not giving your opinion on whatever she is telling you because you will look just as guilty. Then just tell Jordan that Amanda is not trust worthy. I hope that Jordan doesn't think your jealous of Amanda and just being messy; or is that the case? This could backfire.
2006-12-05 03:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by momview 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him everything Amanda has told you for you could prove to him that shes telling everyone about his personal problems and that he shouldn't trust her no more..also tell him your telling him for he could realize what kind of friend he had and that you care about him
2006-12-05 02:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥cRazY♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when you want to help someone it can even mean leaving them alone. sooner or later u may c the right way but it has to come out so u end up not being the victim too
2006-12-05 02:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.........I'd find some new friends.......and stop watching that dam OC show.. then go find some friends that have mushrooms , and eat them, and ponder your problem then. You'll have a whole new out look on it
2006-12-05 02:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like High School "He said She said" crap to me. Just talk to your friend.
2006-12-05 02:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by munkees81 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt and tell him so.
Otherwise let him be and learn a lesson.
2006-12-05 02:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. He'll find out for himself.
2006-12-05 02:40:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋