i know what he looks like, but im not really attracted to him, i just noticed a diffent spark on his face and his eyes that's why i texted him. turns out he was really fun to talk to, and because of him and me texting each other i did not commit suicide, i am happy and amused whenever he replies, he is a pot user, he habitually smokes marijuana but i dont mind that he is a great friend, he introduced me to bob marley and reggae even with ska and i terribly became happy
but now im seriously considering in stopping texting him, i dont have plans to let him see who i am, im not bad looking, but im very unusual and weird, i think things will change if he knows and sees me because im really a weird one, im afraid that if i let him see my face it could never be the same, im being selfish and all
but i have a terrible low self esteem,so im ending the friendship, its been almost a year, i feel bad about leaving all the friendship behind but then i know im not brave enough to face real people
2006-12-04 18:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-08 17:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have a low self-esteem, like me. You have to work on it. I used to not engage in any social activities. But ever since I joined this good and religious organization, the social activities I've attended to are all fun and I have no regrets.
And as for your friend, I'm worried about him doing drugs. I don't know. I haven't met him. I don't know what kind of a person he is but if I were you, I wouldn't be friends with a person who is a pot user and smokes marijuana. He himself needs help and rehabilitiation.
I suggest you don't see him in person. You just might be putting yourself in danger if you see him. You've just been textmates after all and you don't really know his real personality. I would suggest stop texting him.
Also, hang around people who are fun to be with but who have GOOD HEARTS and who are nice and kind and who will be a good influence to you, not someone who do drugs.
If you have friends and hangs around with people and have fun (good clean fun ) with them, you wouldn't consider committing suicide.
I once thought I wanted to die and I was deeply depressed but when I went out with good people and socialized, I realized how beautiful the world is and there are a lot of things and moments in life to experience and to conquer.
YOU SHOULD SEE WHAT THE WORLD IS LIKE. Go out, have dinner with friends. Tour the world. Go to great places. Party with friends. Watch movies. Go to bridal showers and wedding parties, watch concerts with friends. YOu know what i mean. ENJOY LIFE.
2006-12-05 02:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself and meet him, you're about to cut this friendship off anyway so you have nothing to lose. Good luck!
2006-12-05 02:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-05 02:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry questions too long, dont have a spare hour and a half.
2006-12-05 02:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋