I was checking the temp files on our computer and I found my guy had visited a whole lot of porn sites especially the ones with really young girls. I so shocked. I also found that he had visited many interracial sites and sites showing girls with really 'big' men. I dunno what to do. My guy has a really small organ and I think that is causing him to do that. Should I suggest he goes for counselling or what? We have been using a penis extender for some time now. I hope I havent caused this.
2006-12-04 18:29:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- It's quite common. You are not at all strange. Males like to look at that kinds of stuff.
2006-12-08 16:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men watch porn, men jerk off, men are really concerned about the size of their equipment. As long as he is living his fantasies in internet sites rather than cheating on you, there shouldn't be a problem. Give up the penis extender. Yes I know size really does matter but you are killing his ego. How would you like it if he asked you to put a bag over your head so you would look better?
2006-12-05 02:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by svcouple7677 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything wrong with porn, unless the subjects are underage. If it bothers you, maybe you need the counseling. If anything he is wondering what it would be like seeing you pleased by a big one. Just reassure him that you are happy the way he is.
2006-12-05 02:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even mention counseling, lighten up, you can both have fun with it. My partner and I look at all that stuff, and have a good time with it. Every guy going to look, I'm sure other guys look at you too. Try it at least, and talk to him,remember communication is one of the keys to a long HAPPY relationship.
2006-12-05 03:20:39 · answer #4 · answered by bad.wrench 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys and porn! Are they not related? Almost all of my friends and myself included enjoy porn. I can't really explain why other than I really enjoy the female body, and I enjoy certain sexual acts and activities. I feel if you were to confront him and he is at all "hush hush" about it now, you could not only embarrass him. You could open a can of something you may not want to deal with, as his defences may flare up. Be prepared and please understand that this common among men!
2006-12-05 02:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make him feel incompetant. When your having sex with him make him feel good about himself. Tell him how you love him inside of you. Also let him watch the porn. In fact join him. By doing this it shows to him not only are you open minded but that your not jelous. Just tell him not to hide it from you. If you do this he will feel confident enough to be honest around you. Good luck! and don't over react.
2006-12-05 02:36:07 · answer #6 · answered by Bambi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men do things like that, and the first thing that you should do it talk to him about it, and tell him how you feel. Men really can't help what they are attracted to, and if you talk with him about it, and he isn't responding well, then perhaps you should seek counseling if it is something that really bothers you.
2006-12-05 02:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shoulden't look through his stuff. but anyway i know personally that guys like to look at what they cant see in real life. its more of a fantasy thing. and porn is just an escape from the same old thing. you cant be a different race so he just wants to see what it looks like. th ebig penis thing, you need to talk to him about that 1
2006-12-05 02:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he doesnt need counseling, guys watch porn that has a well endowed guy cuz they wanna see the girl get f'd real good not cuz of their own insecurities, if it was from bein insecure they would watch porn where the guy was real small so they could feel better about themselves
2006-12-05 02:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sucks, but all guys do this. He doesn't need counseling, he's just being a guy. But of it bothers you, you need to stand up for yourself and tell him to hide it better. It really sucks stumbling across that crap.
2006-12-05 02:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋