Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-04 17:33:26 · 10 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

im a 17yr old girl. well my cousin(girl-age:24) has kind of become really friendly with my sis and me of late....she is a very God-fearing person. but her behaviour is what freaks me out at times. she seems to be so attracted to my sis. and the two of them sleep on two different beds wich are put together so that makes it one big bed. and wen i walk into my sis's room sometimes to take something, i see both of them snuggled in bed whispering to each other. sometimes my cousin wud hav her legs inbetween my sister's. and i once accidently entered a room where both of em were hugging and the moment they knew i entered...they just let go of each other. and there was this one time wen my sis was in the shower and my cousin wud jus keep knocking for my sis to come out to tell her "bye" and then my sis opened the door a lil and peeped out, wrapped only in her towel, and my cousin jus stared at her and said 'why dont u come out this way, u look great'
pleez help me figure ths out. thank u.

2006-12-04 17:32:15 · 19 answers · asked by moi 1 in Friends

I gotta admit, I look back fondly of the days when my brother and sister and I used to fight over the joy stick/controller to the atari/coleco......among many other childhood memories.

2006-12-04 17:30:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am 5 " and i guess this is the reason why everyone calls me a kid i have many friends but o boyfriend i dont even need one as i find it very boring subject.do you agree?

2006-12-04 17:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I kind of have a bit of a dilemma on my hands. I work in an office and there is a girl there who I'd LOVE to try and go on a date with. She's an intern and her last day is Dec. 15th, so I'm not worried too much about eventually having a potentially awkward relationship with a co-worker.

I'm not 100% certain that she'd give me her number, but the few times I have had a chance to really talk/flirt with her, I've sat there and talked her for an hour. when I said, "I should get back to work" she replied, "No, I don't mind". That moment happened maybe 3 weeks ago.

The problem is that I never have a chance to try and get her number. She is stationed up front right where my two bosses' offices are located, so I can't exactly just go up there and hit on her.
She's a diligent worker (being an intern and all), so I have trouble catching her in the kitchen away from everyone else, for example.

As I said, I'd love to ask her out but I'm having a hard time finding the chance. Any ideas?

2006-12-04 17:29:21 · 20 answers · asked by samfishx 2 in Singles & Dating

She is the one for me.We were first love years ago and finally reunited 10 years later.been dating 3 mo. but I'm scared to ruin a great thing. She came out a bad divorce and has been alone for several years.She comes close for weeks at a time a then seems to be a 1000 miles away the next. We were meant to be together but I can't lose her again.

2006-12-04 17:28:18 · 17 answers · asked by kseajones 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my boyfriend and I (both 19 years old) have a problem. A lot of times, we will start talking to each other in this baby like (whiny) voice. Mainly when we are being "cute" with each other (such as "awww... poor baby, etc..." , but we do it A LOT and for extended periods of time. It's pretty much unconsciously. Whenever we catch ourselves we will try to stop/control it (such as when we are in public). It doesn't really bother me when we do it in private, but I was wondering if this is common at all?? Do other couples do the same thing? Or.... Are we just a bunch of "whiners"? lol

2006-12-04 17:24:48 · 20 answers · asked by jennytkd13 3 in Singles & Dating

Little Things That Make Us Happy
In one sentence or less, tell us about a "little thing" in life that makes you really happy.
*when i hug a baby...

2006-12-04 17:23:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to make him more interested,he's 23 years old and he doesn't have girlfriend. What should i do?( show me how to email u , if u have any question about him). thanx..please don't make fun of me. I really love him.

- Neda

2006-12-04 17:23:41 · 8 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 17:21:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wanna impress a girl and i m unknown to her but i see her often.

2006-12-04 17:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am looking 4 a timberland shoe outlet or where i can find tim's for cheap????

2006-12-04 17:20:44 · 4 answers · asked by dsm562 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 17:20:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats the meaning of a french kiss and how is it done,why is it called so?

2006-12-04 17:20:30 · 4 answers · asked by sweets 1 in Singles & Dating

Who do you prefer?

From my past observation, most women would take either one.
But, generally speaking, the nice pretty women end up with the cute shy guys, and the hot party girls end up with the bad boys.

What do you think?

2006-12-04 17:20:28 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is going out with a guy and she really likes him. But i'm a little worried about there relationship because they just started going out 2 weeks ago and she already lied to him. She told him that she was a virgin but the truth is that she isn't. She even slept with her current boyfriends good friend.

She told me that i shouldn't say anything and of course, me being her best friend, am not going to say a thing but i just know that he is going to find out and everything is going to be screwd up.

I hope she knows what shes doing. I tried telling her that she should just tell him the truth but she wont listen to me, shes too afraid of losing him. What would you do if you were in her situation?

2006-12-04 17:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm being serious. I really want to know because i want to understand. not being hateful or sarcastic.

2006-12-04 17:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by intangible_me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently broke up with my "fiance" because well he had been beating me and that night before I broke up with him he strangled me. I feel like its my fault bc he then before I left cried and said he would do anything to keep me here and that he was sorry. Now far away from him and wondering if I did the right thing I really cant stop crying. To make things worse we were together for 2 years and he was the first man I ever slept with and was really intimate with. Is it my fault, did I do the right thing, and how can I get over this? Please comment back.

2006-12-04 17:19:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he promise me that he was never ganna do drugs.... and he end up doing them .. he promise me that 3 times already and those three times he didn't keep his promises. what should i do?? not trust him no more!!

2006-12-04 17:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what to do when your in love with two people....?
any suggestions?

2006-12-04 17:18:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The men are then charged once they enter the house in which they are sopoes to meet the young women. I need to know the channel in canada in which this prgram shows on.

2006-12-04 17:18:18 · 3 answers · asked by ANGEL 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 17:17:56 · 10 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a christian married woman going on ten years. I would like a christian point of view. What is a good man? Do your husbands get on your nerves too? I know mine has an anger problem. He is verbally abusive as well. I know divorce is wrong. I just want to leave most of the time. Its like all I want is for him to come home and be nice to me. Gentle. I don't ask anything from him but respect and kindness. Is that too much to ask for? Serious answers please.

2006-12-04 17:17:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ames A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See, often i feel like my friend is very condescending towards me when i voice my opinions. While i have nothing against everyone having his/her own opinion, it often seems to play out that i state my opinion and she will say something along the lines of "That's not right Sarah..." and such, even though i feel my opinion is completely valid. This occurs also in situations where I am more informed on the subject, but all the same she thinks she is right and I am dead wrong. She also seems to have this thing where she believes i am extremely immature, even though i feel that i am not, or that she is just as immature as I (I sometimes get giddy and make dumb jokes, and she will say “Sarah, that’s not funny. Stop it” even though she acts like that quite a bit I think. So I feel she thinks herself higher and more mature than me, which is a big issue for me) . It isn't even so much what she says, she gets this look on her face that says "That's so stupid. How could you think that" and she has pretty much acknowledged that's what the face is. So, needless to say, i end up doubting myself and/or getting very defensive "No, it is right" and such. I want to explain to her that this bothers me the way she treats me, but I am wondering if I am being oversensitive. I just get the feeling she looks down on me, also if i don't know a fact she acts like i'm the dumbest person she’s met. Such as I might not know who a famous actor/actress from the 50’s is or something, and she will comment about how uncultured/stupid I am (not necessarily in those words, but with that meaning). I get mad because it isn’t so much my fault she has been exposed to more things like that than I (her family watches a lot of movies, mine doesn’t). So yes, sorry for this rant, but please I would like any help. I am starting to get very very sick from all this (resentment, feel sick when I see her coming, trying to avoid her etc…) and I don’t want it to keep going like this, cause I will lose her as a friend. So please, any help. Thanks =)

2006-12-04 17:16:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my 3year b/f has a married online women he talks to i have talked to her and she is very rude to me she says she only wants to talk to my b/f and he changes when he talks to her he gets defensive and talks down to me when he is online with her she is married and i asked her wre is her husband when she is talking to my b/f she says who cares and leave them alone my b/f and her what am i missing ?

2006-12-04 17:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Bianca H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl in my class, (Ithink that she is pretty and nice. But
the other guys make fun of her because she has glass, and she is not skinney, and the reason that they make fun of her so much
is because her mom is a teacher that no one likes. Some times they
make her cry, I sometimes try to talk 2 her but my friends don't let me and I know one of them likes her 2 and every time I'm was going to tell her that I like her,my friends stop me and I don't know why? Should I tell her, I sometimes feel if I tell her my friends will stop talking to me, Sometimes they give me hints to not talk 2 her and I think she won't talk to me because she thinks that I make fun of her (I don't) Something annoys me is that she will avoid me if I start walking towards her. I worry about her because she doesn't have friends and she always looks lonely. Should I tell her how I feel

2006-12-04 17:15:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is having an affair and It's been going on for about 4 years now. She's still doing all her responsibilities and still supporting us for what we're doing but I just can't stand it anymore. My dad knows about it and he doesn't wanna divorce her because he wants our family to be complete. I really feel bad when my aunts tell me that they would always see my mom and this jerk together. Some of my teammates would also see my mom out with this man and it hurts me a lot because I don't want my dad suffering like that. I feel like my mom doesn't care at all when people see her with this man. I tried to confront her like last week but I kinda had a hard time because tears fell on my cheeks already. It's a topic that I don't wanna bring up cuz its hard to talk about it with her. She keeps denying it even though I caught them many times already but they didn't see me. She's just a fuck3n liar and has been cheating on my dad and I can't stand it anymore. Please help me!

2006-12-04 17:14:32 · 21 answers · asked by swimmer 2 in Family

In a little less than a year I have made ALL the effort as far as keeping in touch with my father. I have talked to him 3 times this year and we usually talk atleast once or twice a month. My grandmother died this past September and I asked that he be there for me. He did not show up and It really hurt my feelings. My grandmother was CRAZY about my father and thought the world of him even during times that she should not have. It just bothered me so bad that he wouldnt want to pay his last respects and be there for his daughter. We have just formed a relationship 6-7 years ago...during my adult life. But I have to say in the little bit of time we had grown close but the last 2 years he has withdrawn from me. I have asked him gently if there was anything wrong and he claims absolutely nothing. I also let him know that if he wanted to talk to me he could call and he has yet to call. We usually spend christmas and thanksgiving together and he has not called to invite me.I amhurt

2006-12-04 17:14:17 · 3 answers · asked by lullabyforthree 2 in Family

i really love this guy and he keeps doing things that cause me not to trust him. now hes mad cause he has been trying lately to gain my trust and im not moving as quickly as he wants. which is selfish i think. but ive been with him for 3 yrs and it hurts so bad to have the thought of not being with him. he is very good to me but at times is very selfish about the things that he does. knowing that it will hurt me. im having a hard time letting him go. i feel dumb at times cuz im not ugly and very smart. so i wouldnt have a hard time in finding someone else.i really need some advice cuz this lack of trust thing is causing problems in our relationship. even though he is the one to blame for it. i feel bad cuz i know i should let him go and what he does to me is my fault for putting up with it. but i cant seem to let him go and stay gone. plz help me someone. im serious. i need help. what do i do in a situation like this. its not as easy as letting go.

2006-12-04 17:12:43 · 14 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

so theres this girl that i like......we dated for a few weeks....broke up cuz she had too much going on...and i've been waiting so far....
she says that she still has feeling for me, but theres other guys after her,too.....she said that whe its time she'll teel ME, not those other guys....
i kno i kinda got it made....but still i cannot stop thinking about her.....i see her everyday @ skool.....and shes always on my mind....
is there any advice that yall can give me to,like, speed this process up?
if there is, i'll thank yall forever and ever...

2006-12-04 17:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by el spider-man-dude 2 in Singles & Dating