so theres this girl that i like......we dated for a few weeks....broke up cuz she had too much going on...and i've been waiting so far....
she says that she still has feeling for me, but theres other guys after her,too.....she said that whe its time she'll teel ME, not those other guys....
i kno i kinda got it made....but still i cannot stop thinking about her.....i see her everyday @ skool.....and shes always on my mind....
is there any advice that yall can give me to,like, speed this process up?
if there is, i'll thank yall forever and ever...
2006-12-04 17:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by el spider-man-dude 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Mr. Man. it sounds as if you want the girl because other guys are trying to holla at her, but you really don't want to be in the middle of the drama of her life. She has told you how she feels after the break up, but i didn't read where you told her how you feel about her. if you sincerely want to talk to this girl, simply tell her how you feel and that will speed things up.
p.s sorry i'm not a giirl but hope the advice is useful
2006-12-04 17:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Changed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she really doesn't know what she wants at this time and if you pressure her, it's just going to make it worse. As much as it hurts, I would wait it out awhile and see what happens. You can't MAKE someone feel the way you want them to.
2006-12-04 17:16:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and just be her friend first. Be the pal she can lean on and share with and it will give you an edge. Good luck to you, just hang in there!
2006-12-04 17:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Brianne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you as much as you are into her. She just doesn't want to let you down totally.
Also, your obsession with her sounds more like infatuation anyway.
I say.... get over it and move on.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-04 17:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first advice to you darling, is stop thinking about this girl and concentrate on your spelling!! :-)
Secondly, if she really likes you you will know about it, I think she is hedging her bets
Back off a bit, girls like a bit of mystery to their men
2006-12-04 17:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi_Moo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should give her time and wait and she will tell you why she is ready but if you have to wait to long then just move on
2006-12-04 17:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by megan p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can speed the process by moving on, she is just stringing you along
2006-12-04 17:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...sweetheart...give the girl time...if she wants you..she'll let you know :) Best of luck
2006-12-04 17:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by femmefatalefeline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, Wait, Wait, & wait. do nothing, and wait.. things'll be shown to you when time comes. Are you sure you really like her? or just for now..
2006-12-04 17:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by Yuri Ebihara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE (puppy) LOVE MATE!!!
2006-12-04 17:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Tyler E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋