are they lesbians??

Question

im a 17yr old girl. well my cousin(girl-age:24) has kind of become really friendly with my sis and me of late....she is a very God-fearing person. but her behaviour is what freaks me out at times. she seems to be so attracted to my sis. and the two of them sleep on two different beds wich are put together so that makes it one big bed. and wen i walk into my sis's room sometimes to take something, i see both of them snuggled in bed whispering to each other. sometimes my cousin wud hav her legs inbetween my sister's. and i once accidently entered a room where both of em were hugging and the moment they knew i entered...they just let go of each other. and there was this one time wen my sis was in the shower and my cousin wud jus keep knocking for my sis to come out to tell her "bye" and then my sis opened the door a lil and peeped out, wrapped only in her towel, and my cousin jus stared at her and said 'why dont u come out this way, u look great'
pleez help me figure ths out. thank u.

well some of u have been really kind to help me with advice while some think its none of my business. well here's an instance that freaked me out completely. well the fact that she's my cousin i do talk to her and once we did get into this childish argument and it ended up in a more wrestling sort of thing...well only for fun and she happens to be really strong well at least wen compared to me...so she managed to push me on the floor with her on top of me, holding onto my hands really tightly...and she had her legs on top of mine so there was no way i could possibly move. i thought she was wrestling only for fun the way my other cousins and i used to wen we were kids so i was like "urgh! i hate u!!" and then she moved her head closer to my face and kissed me a number of times near my neck and said "i love u".
by now she was completely on top of me. i just somehow managed to push her off me and then after that she just smiled acted like everything was jus for fun.

Answer 1

I'm sorry, but the truth is that it's none of your business. Why would you even care or want to know what other people are doing? Don't you think that there is enough on your own plate to keep you occupied?

Answer 2

That definetly seems a little strange to me, but then again I don't like getting physically close to anyone. Anyways, some people are just that close. Such as my mother and her friend, they are very close and they take naps together in my mothers room, but they are just good friends, nothing intimate. So, it's possible that they are very close to eachother. But even if it was just that, i personally would be a little creeped out like you seem to be. Legally speaking I think that's incest if they are doing anything. So, if they are doing something it could very well be illegal. Also, the fact that they pulled apart when you came in could be a sing that something is going on. And i personally don't think that you should "mind your own business" cause i personally think that it IS your business, i mean you cousin and sister? If it was your sis and someone else that could be different but yeah. I think you should probably ask your sister if anything is going on. And if your cousin is really God-fearing and she is doing something then she might want to stop and repent and get help or something. So yeah, i think you should just directly ask them, but not in a harsh way, be gentle and such. Anyways, i hope something works out for you, best of luck!

Answer 3

Either very friendly with each other or definitely lesbians
My guess youre cousin is a lesbian and youre sister is enjoying the attention

Answer 4

What your sister does is her business, but if your cousin is acting out in ways that make YOU feel uncomfortable or even threatened, you have every right to confront her and tell her to stop.

Answer 5

Well I'm from England so we as friends wouldn't do that! But I thought you Americans had really close friendships, so maybe it's just that? You never know though! Ask your sister, she should be honest if you're close!

Answer 6

sounds like some experimenting is going on... or maybe just close like sisters, but if you get the feeling that something is going on, than dont ignore what could be in front of you.... accept, it for what it is until you are told differently. close mindedness will get you chaos..

Answer 7

sounds like something fishy is definitely goin on....maybe theyre not "lesbians," but bi, or experimenting....nothing wrong with this. but the fact that they are related (cousins) is....well....not ok, in my opinion (even tho they can't reproduce together, but still.....just not a line to cross, i dont think).

Answer 8

Sounds like a good time. Give me her number!

Answer 9

yea they sound like they are really close. They might be lesbians but you could never know me and my friend were really close. But if you really think that they are too close ask them if they are

Answer 10

cousins.....weird. And yes they could be lesbians together, and that's incest. But its nothing that you should be ashamed of or frown upon if they are lesbians, its just weird because they are cousins.