Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

So this guy I met online tells me he loves me, and how he is a virgin. He's been saving himself for the right girl, which I totally support!!

But he says "ITs not like I didnt have the oppurtunity to do stuff. I've layed naked in bed with girls and have done everything but sex. Something just stopped me from doing it. Then the girl called me a loser and left."

Can a man actually have that much control over himself? Or is he trying to get to me by telling me he loves me and is waiting for the right girl?

2006-12-04 16:35:12 · 21 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard a guy on the radio today say swinging is not just about sex. Is this true? And if not explain a little to me what the swinger life is about.

2006-12-04 16:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by intangible_me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together for almost 2 years now, and i really don't think that we are ment for each other. he's 32 and im only 24.... our family are close because of the duration that we have been together. i just need to get over him. we haven't officially separated but i want to. but i really do love him.

2006-12-04 16:34:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend that i dated for 3 years broke up with me. She says i was to jealous and etc. I thought it was repsect in a relationship not partryin all night with girlfriends at bars etc. She broke up with me about 2 months ago. I still lover her so much she says we need to be friends if i want anything to happen. She will yell at me on the phone and hang up on me and treat me like im nothing. WHY DOES SHE STILL CALL me after all that

2006-12-04 16:34:46 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

After 8 months, I saw my ex boyfriend at the university campus that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me, he was smiling and looking deeply into my eyes, he kept asking me all these questions. I kinda seemed annoyed. At the end of the conversation, he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. He was the one who dumped me 8 months ago. HE was the one who dumped me. But he would still say hi to me on msn but he doesn’t say hi that much anymore.We never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. Since that day on school, he hasn’t tried to contact me, even on msn just to say hi, so does that mean that all his happiness & “let’s see a movie” was fake? I would NEVER ask him out, but do u think he will ever ask me to hang out with him?

2006-12-04 16:34:14 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

We have 2 small children. The funeral is going to be 2 states away. We would have to fly. Is it imperative that my children and I attend the funeral, or should my husband go alone? I didn't know her well; I only saw her a few times.

2006-12-04 16:32:34 · 5 answers · asked by caffeinatedmom2 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a lot of classes with him and I don't really know him to well and he might or not like me. So do you guys have any ideas of what I should put in a not for him?

2006-12-04 16:32:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anna G 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 16:31:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been through this before-I told him it made me feel inadequate because I compare myself (and fear he does too) to the perfect bodies in the porn. Also, he is rarely interested in having sex with me, even when I initiate it. We've been together 10 years and have 2 beautiful children together. I am not the babe I once was, but I'm not too shabby either! Everything else is pretty good so I wonder how big a deal to make of it. Bottom line is: I feel betrayed and I am hurting over this. Please help- I would especially like to hear from married men and women who've been here. Thank you, Thank you.

2006-12-04 16:31:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a bit shy when it come to talking to my gf about sex and that stuff. But I would like to ask her to shave down there instead of just trimming. I don't won't to just come out and tell her that, but i don't know how to do it. Please Help.

2006-12-04 16:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by Dave 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 16:29:56 · 6 answers · asked by krischamp 1 in Singles & Dating

I am working in Dubai and well paid. My wife was with me here but recently she delivered a baby girl in india and unfortunately that baby girl is heart patient. I can not sponsor her here becuase she needs treatment. My parents are old and they are alone. I cant concentrate on work here. If I will go back to india I will run out of money and if I will continue here I think of them every time. What should I do? Money is important or family values? Shall I leave my job and go back to give them moral support?

2006-12-04 16:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by advance ideas 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've Been Married for 5 years And We've Been Together For 10 Years, After 7 Years We Started To Grow Apart, So How Do You Rekindle The Love We Once Had?

2006-12-04 16:29:25 · 10 answers · asked by wise4ever1010 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well she macked with aguy that macked with me. and a guy that i told her that i once had n probably had feelings 4!
and then she tells me wats wrong wen i saw her n she saw me there!!!!!

2006-12-04 16:28:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

1. current bf- weve been together for 2 months and were in love but he doesnt trust me or treat me very well ...

2. guy who i dated before summer who treatted me so well but his best freind broke us up saying things that werent true and now they are not friends anymore and he knows the truth now but he says it cant just go back magically.

what should i do!!!!???

2006-12-04 16:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by nrcl1987 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm worried about my best friend. He has been with this girl for almost 6 months and he thinks that they love each other and they are going to spend the rest of their life together. This sounds ok but here's the thing. She isn't good to him. She gets mad at him at least once a day for stupid stuff. We are all in college and she is acting like they are in middle school. She is extremely immature. She is also very controlling, if he doesn't do what she wants him to then she gets mad. She has threatened to break up with him multiple times over stupid stuff and recently she said that if he went to visit his dad for New year's day without her then she would cheat on him.

My questions are:
1. Can they really be in love with a relationship like this?
2. Should I do anything or let it play out?

2006-12-04 16:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by zook388 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy that I hooked up with while we were both kinda drunk, but after that we keep meeting up in private and what not. But he acts so different in public, he refuses to talk to me and is a real ****. Then when he calls me to come round I always go without question. In private he's the perfect guy, and I've fallen hopelessly head over heels for him. I really don't know what I should do. He has never lied to me yet he won't tell me why he wont go out with me. He's got me wrapped around his little finger, I always do what he tells me to even if I don't want to.
Can someone please help me? I'm so confused

2006-12-04 16:26:19 · 7 answers · asked by ScarabAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the fastest way to help minimize and lighten a hickey.??

2006-12-04 16:26:12 · 8 answers · asked by LoVeLy 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm sure you've read my other questions on my dog and my daughters. My 3 year old Pitt Bull Sadie was just spayed last night and she has a cone on her head. WELL... one of my 5 year old daughters is FLIPPING OUT! She's crying about seeing Sadie's stitches and keeps picking at them and trying to take the cone off her head! (And AGAIN, don't tell me about my pit bull and my 5 year old daughters, I love her and would never give her up, she's the sweetest creature in the world, so bloody hush up) I sat my daughter down and had a chat about what happened and why we cannot touch Sadie's sutures and e collar, but she is relentless! Is there anything I should do or say extra to stop her? Her sister understands, and they're squabbling about it. So now it's between my poor dog with the cone on her head being harrassed by one of my 5 year olds whilst my other is practically pulling her pigtails off just to get her off the ruddy dog, all while screaming "DAD!" like it's going out of fashion! HELP!

2006-12-04 16:25:45 · 9 answers · asked by Arthur Andrews. 1 in Family

Written to my mother after an argument:

'Yes, you are correct, I was mad at something today. Dad. He spoke on the phone earlier this morning and I overheard his conversation. Why don't you ask him what he was talking about? I'm sure he'd be glad to tell you that he's co-signing on my _____, even though he clearly knows the ________ have been trying to _________ for weeks on fabricated charges of _____________. Why don't you also ask ______. I'm sure he knows, too, because both those _______ haven't been honest with me from the very beginning. I'm through with this family once I move, and I don't give a ___ anymore. This family is trash. They won't even tell me the most basic of truths, so why should I bother being a son to such a distrusting family who won't even tell me the truth and pretends that I'm in grade school still? Yes, keep believing that I'm still 4 years old and don't have ears to hear or eyes to see. Once I move, I'm never speaking to ______ again. Have a nice life.'

2006-12-04 16:25:26 · 5 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay before you read this :im an idiot!
okay i've always had hairy arms so 2 weeks ago i shaved them and waxed thema nd now my arm hair look REALLY THICK AND BLACK! AND I HAVE LIKE PIMPLES ON THE AREA IN FRONT OF MY ELBOW (RASH) also its hairy! what can i do?im not shaving again i cut a little with scissors and the hairs are sticking up please help what can i do its 12 pm at my house and i need to go to school tommorow wearing a short sleeved volleyball shirt1 i cant wear a sweater what can i do to even the hairs and make it look like i dont shave.im so EMBARRASED! PLEASE HELP IMA CRY! im 14!

2006-12-04 16:24:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A girl i like told me something that you'd only tell someone you really trust......What does this mean...
Note: She's rejected me when i asked her to go out with me, BEFORE she told me her secrite


She knows I like her
And were juionrs in high school

2006-12-04 16:24:20 · 4 answers · asked by keithr2003 3 in Singles & Dating

I decided to make a move..I asked my crush to a "all day" movie
she said yes
now she told me she is going to bring some of her "girl" friends along...
does this mean she feel uncomfortable with me and therefore dont like me?

2006-12-04 16:23:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hmm?

2006-12-04 16:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by bikinigirl41 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 9 months, but we've basically spent the past 2 years together every day. Both of us are 15 but don't assume that makes us too young to be in love. I'm crazy about this guy and we've had sex quite often. He's a bit of a troublemaker and a daredevil, but my mom is an English teacher and I get A's and B's. My family doesn't really "approve" of him, AKA we are in the higher class of society, wheras he and his mom have just lost their home and are thinking about moving back to New Hampshire! Is this JUST like the Notebook or what!! I don't know what to do! My mom won't let me move with him and his mom won't let him stay here. We have 3 years until we can make our own decisions but by then he'll probably love someone else. Without him I'm nothing but a suicide. But that's another story. Please spare me the "don't do it" speeches. I haven't slept in 2 days and I'm scared I'll lose him forever. I need hardcore advice. Please and thank you

2006-12-04 16:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by DeAd DiScO 4 in Singles & Dating

everytime i think about him i want to cry...

2006-12-04 16:22:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am trying to figure something out to spice things up a bit and to get my husband back from the porn that he watching we have sex alot, and he still watches it if we don't have sex that night he is watchingit the next day but he is almost 40 and i am 25 shouldn't it be me sexually frustrated. and curious. we have only been married 5 mo

2006-12-04 16:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What was it that made you melt ?

2006-12-04 16:21:53 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mom and I went out of town to visit my sister and 2 be there for her 1st baby 2 be born, and she acted like she didn't want us 2 bother w/her and her child. Like she didn't want us 2 help take care of the baby when she wuz born. Her husband as well felt this way, he got pissed off when we picked up the newborn. My mom feels like she wuz unwanted and so we returned. Does this sound normal 2 u guys. The husband didn't like us and could't understand y we kept in touch w/eachother every day, because he said he dosen't even call his family, if they want 2 talk 2 him they'll call him. She's 28yrs old and it seemed like her husband wuz pushing the baby on her, cuz this wuz their 1st 1 and she said she wuzn't ready 2 have 1 yet, meanwhile he cursed my mom and I out continually the whole x we were there and she didn't say anything 2 him, she kept quite the whole x as well, instead of saying something 2 him. Hell he's only 23yrs old @ that & very disrespectful. Haven't spoken since.....

2006-12-04 16:20:51 · 6 answers · asked by shortyb5 2 in Family

2006-12-04 16:19:21 · 28 answers · asked by grapes 1 in Singles & Dating