There's this guy that I hooked up with while we were both kinda drunk, but after that we keep meeting up in private and what not. But he acts so different in public, he refuses to talk to me and is a real ****. Then when he calls me to come round I always go without question. In private he's the perfect guy, and I've fallen hopelessly head over heels for him. I really don't know what I should do. He has never lied to me yet he won't tell me why he wont go out with me. He's got me wrapped around his little finger, I always do what he tells me to even if I don't want to.
Can someone please help me? I'm so confused
2006-12-04 16:26:19 · 7 answers · asked by ScarabAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- Nothing will come out positive for you in acting in that way. You should have more consideration for yourself. Forget about him and meet different kind of people. Don't let him make your life a mess.
2006-12-08 15:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY he doesnt want to be seen going out with you. ask him why and confront to him about it.
Maybe...just maybe...he has another girl...or...its his #### ego.
Leave him and dont act as if you'll wait for him. Even if you want to. If you keep waiting for him, he'll just think no matter how cruel he is you'll be there sticking with him.
Start walking away, that would make him panic and if he really wants you, that would make him come and run after you...
Get some pride and make some principles for yourself. He should love you as a human being who has rights and opinions, not as a machine that would follow all he wants
2006-12-05 00:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! This is a simple one. The guy is a jerk and is either married or has a gf or is embarrassed to be seen with you. And why should he take you out, you jump whenever he calls anyway. Get smart and get out. You deserve better and he deserves to get his ass kicked for treating you like that.
2006-12-05 00:31:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his booty call - and you continue to allow yourself to be. It is obvious that's all he wants you for if he can't take you out in public then you can't be there for him in private either. You are head over heels for the sex not the manb
2006-12-05 00:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Fabulous Divaness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already gets what he wants from you so there's no point for him to sacrifice his other life for you. Relax and take control of the situation. Say no and tell him you want to do something different.
2006-12-05 00:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in his heart he does not approve of you, you are not the kind of girl he would introduce to his parents
2006-12-05 02:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him.ask what you want to know.he's maybe hiding something from you.you wouldn't know unti you try..
2006-12-05 00:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋