Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Ive been ruining relationships for the longest time and i dont seem to care at all. I dont want a relationship or anything close to it. Ive liked this guy and he has a girlfriend whom by the way is my enemy...and he calls me and we have sex all the time behind her back. Is this wrong and what should i do? He called me crying asking me to tell his girlfriend that we aren't hooking up. doesnt that suck that he obiviously chose her. Should i tell her the truth or cover for him? Please help and be honest i can take it!

2006-12-04 15:41:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy who just goes for the kiss as u were trying to say something or the one who will ask u first?

2006-12-04 15:40:36 · 27 answers · asked by Ben S 2 in Singles & Dating

he's verbly abusive,he breaks my things ,i do'nt have a social life and i'm so depressed,but we have a 3yrs old son together.and he wont let me work..

2006-12-04 15:40:04 · 28 answers · asked by jen j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok me and my ex where 2gether 4 happy yrs. she left me last mounth. After 2wks she calls me n wants back. I open my heart agian. We have the greatest week ever. We moved back 2 the plan, moving in w/each other. She then leaves 4 her friends house. when she comes back she breaks up w/me agian. I call her the next day n she tells me she felt different. After a week we meet up to drop some stuff off. she tells me when she came back she honestly loved n missed me but she felt diff when she came back. I ask if their was some1 ealse n it would help me move on she swares their isnt. We hug n kiss n i walk away. she wants 2b friends but needs time "maybe we can do something in the summer" she said. Two days later she calls me at work. I start off with a joke n ask me if i was willing 2 keep her company 4hr while the train come so she can see her friend. I am confused she knows i still luv her n i want 2 work this out. what is she up2? is this a test? should i call her 2 ask her why me? I dunno

2006-12-04 15:39:32 · 8 answers · asked by detox_denny 1 in Singles & Dating

For me, I wish I could trustpeople innocently again. I have been burned too many times, and see relatives who take advantage of each other, (financially). It seems everyone leaches off everyone else, and few will take responsibility for their own actions.

2006-12-04 15:39:19 · 10 answers · asked by Too Curious 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this woman about 4 years ago, but lost touch till about 6 months ago, and we got along great. I love this woman more that anything. She says that I am not emotionally accertive enough for her, but someday I might be. Should I try to be the person she needs, or be who I know I am, even if that means possibly losing the person I can see spending the rest of my life with?

2006-12-04 15:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by jj_skinner 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i like this guy and i dont know if he likes me...right now we are texting and ha wants me to ask him questions.....i want to ask if he likes me, but i dont want to be to forward...so what are some other questions???? Help please!!!!

2006-12-04 15:38:08 · 4 answers · asked by Dance♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi, again this is for serious people only. I am 21 years old and I never acted my age I hate most people my age and hang out with 30 and 40 year old women. My problem is the reopened thoughts of my old teacher in high school, I feel like we had a good friendship but turned sour when I felt him acting like my peers than an adult, he is 33 years old. I want to talk to him again, mostly not in a sexual way but to close this door in my past. Should I do it? By the way I did have a crush on him but know that is stupid to even follow through, so I don't need crappy answers. Thank you for reading.

2006-12-04 15:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by kissoflife 1 in Friends

I mean the sex is good and I am not seeing anyone.....plus its not hurting anyone....should I stop or the hell with everything else and continuing with what I am doing??

2006-12-04 15:36:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I asked this before but barely anyone answered so I'll just ask one more time.

Guys: do you mostly hug girls just to get a feel of her breasts?

I'm talking about girls you're attracted to (not your grandmother, sister, etc.)

What exactly goes on your mind when you hug a girl?
Does it turn you on?
What are your thoughts?

2006-12-04 15:34:50 · 21 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 25 year old male and my fiancee is 22. I like to have sex a lot more than she does, and this starts arguements many times. What can I do?

2006-12-04 15:32:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone out there ever worn a gag for sex? Something like this...

http://www.purrsextoys.com/buy/sexy-catalogue.php?Adult=193_250&erotic=2569

...or any other kind. Was it fun? What did you like about it? Do you use it often?

2006-12-04 15:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by jen l 6 in Singles & Dating

I am in college. I am very shy, I have nothing to brag about I look average. There are about 3 or 4 different guys who during the lecture keep turning around or look at me out of the corner of their eye. I don't understand it. I don't wear anything revealing or try to get attention. It drives me nuts. Do they have staring problem or something? I don't like attention and it really makes me uncomfortable. I almost said something rude but I have backed off. I am very defensive when people look at me or say things about me. What do they keep looking at? Please no rude comments.

2006-12-04 15:31:31 · 5 answers · asked by amber 3 in Singles & Dating

Guys..do you find a cartilage piercing on a girl attractive or not? What about double pierced lobes?!

Yay or nay?

2006-12-04 15:30:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have been dating this guy for about 2 and a half months...On friday night, I went out dancing with a few of my girls, and My guy friend was there, well I wasn't really thinking, so I danced with him, then he started flirting with me and I'm a natural flirt so I was flirting back and I didn't realize it. Well now my friend are guilt tripping me saying I cheated on my boyfriend when i didn't think dancing with sumone is cheating but now everybody says I should tell him...Should I???

2006-12-04 15:30:16 · 10 answers · asked by luvgal792003 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 15:29:46 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I have had an extreme amount of feelings for a friend of mine for about 6 years. I was dating his best friend for that amount of time and was scared to get out of the relationship for security issues. He was abusive to me mentally and pushed me around when he was drunk. Also, he used to drink heavily and hurt a lot of people around him.

Now, I have broke things off completely with him. He wants me back and cries to me. I will not take him back. I went down to visit the friend i talked about earlier, this weekend. We had been drinking a lot and I asked him if he wanted me to sleep in his bed or on the couch and he said he couldnt do that to his friend (my ex). His roommate told me that this kid does have feelings for me and that it is obvious there is a lot of tension between us. Should I just forget about this whole thing because he said he couldnt do that to my ex or what?!

2006-12-04 15:29:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 15:29:24 · 9 answers · asked by lani j 1 in Weddings

i am afarid of getting rejected by the guy i like it will be VERY embarrasing for me! are you afraid of rejection and why?also how can i just approach him withought being afraid of rejection? thank you

2006-12-04 15:27:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long do you think you should be with a person before being asked the question?

2006-12-04 15:27:20 · 13 answers · asked by brooksta3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 15:27:09 · 9 answers · asked by OLIVIA! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 15:26:36 · 13 answers · asked by unbrokenheart 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 15:24:28 · 22 answers · asked by jen j 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have a routine or tips on how to become a better organised person in the house.

I think this is best answered by a mother.

Regards
a domestic engineer (stay at home mother)

2006-12-04 15:22:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i havent been the only one noticing this but theres this guy i like and he wont look at me when hes around his friends and if he sees me coming his direction he will go the other way but if hes not around his friends he will keep staring at me and he smiles at me...why is he doing this

2006-12-04 15:21:53 · 20 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 15:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by NaNaLiciou$_[[NABS]] 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl and i were in a very committed relationship for 2 and a half years. im 22 and shes 21. everything seemed to be going really good like always except we were arguing more often. i was this girls first boyfriend and also her first kiss, she wanted to save herself for marriage and i was quite okay with that i never pushed her, i just loved her for her. recenlty before we broke up we were talking about getting married and buying a house and all that. weve been apart for 2 months now and we talk every 2 0r 3 weeks. im giving her space like she asked for but am iwasting my time aiting on a decision. i truly believe that she is my true love but that dosent matter if she dosent feel the same. so i would just like some advice from the ladies on what she may be thinking or doing. does she just need to see if theres sumthing better or does she just need do some things on her own before she settles down. any advice would be great.

2006-12-04 15:21:29 · 13 answers · asked by matt t 1 in Singles & Dating

i left highschool with only 2 friends and they both hardly ever talk to me. my psychatriests says its because i am emotionless and only show anger and this i must stop being emotionless. so how do i show emotion? can i still make friends? how pathedic do i sound? how do you build social skills?

2006-12-04 15:21:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do teachers know everything like if you like a guy how?

2006-12-04 15:20:33 · 17 answers · asked by *á?¦eMo gAlá?¦* 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a very shy person,and i never talk to the guy i like very much. Does it mean anything when he always tries to get me to talk to him (i met him through the family, though he is NOT a family member) he is always at my familys parties. i was wondering if he maby likes me to or if he is just being nice.

2006-12-04 15:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Brokensoul898 2 in Singles & Dating