confused my ex calls me today. need to know whats her intendions r and what do i do? i still luv her. HELP me?

Question

ok me and my ex where 2gether 4 happy yrs. she left me last mounth. After 2wks she calls me n wants back. I open my heart agian. We have the greatest week ever. We moved back 2 the plan, moving in w/each other. She then leaves 4 her friends house. when she comes back she breaks up w/me agian. I call her the next day n she tells me she felt different. After a week we meet up to drop some stuff off. she tells me when she came back she honestly loved n missed me but she felt diff when she came back. I ask if their was some1 ealse n it would help me move on she swares their isnt. We hug n kiss n i walk away. she wants 2b friends but needs time "maybe we can do something in the summer" she said. Two days later she calls me at work. I start off with a joke n ask me if i was willing 2 keep her company 4hr while the train come so she can see her friend. I am confused she knows i still luv her n i want 2 work this out. what is she up2? is this a test? should i call her 2 ask her why me? I dunno

Answer 1

I would leave her alone....she is playing games with you and your emotions.....let her leave and forget her_

Answer 2

One of the biggest difficulties of ending a very long relationship is the habits you form. What seems to be happening is she is used to calling you, and while she may not feel the same way, she is used to you being a constant part of your life. She doesn't know how else to fill that void and so she is probably trying to make things normal between the two of you. I would say that she isn't testing you, or really up to anything. What you need to do is not go out of your way to avoid her, but don't get clingy. Spend some time with your buddies, and if you do nothing else, do NOT make things awkward. Calling her and asking why she called you is going to do just that. That is only going to make things worse. You may miss her for a long time, but that tired out cliche about time and wounds really is true.

Answer 3

The two of you seriously need to sit down and ask yourself where do you see this relationship going? It is obvious that she has some doubts and something is nagging her and she needs to be open with you about it so that you can go past this, otherwise 10 months down the line, the story will be the same. You can also try seeing a counsellor together.

Answer 4

First of all my condolences for you and your poor heart! It sounds like to have ben put in the old reliable -insurance policy- ego booster category. Sorry! Everybody wants and needs to feel loved and unfortunately people sometimes use others to feel good about themselves. As long as you are around she knows she is not alone. Dude you gave her your heart but don't give her your dignity! Notice: whenever you ignore the situation she calls, when you show interest she blows you off. Let that be your guide in turning the tables around in your favor.

Answer 5

Straight up acting like u DO NOT care one bit about her will be what decides the relationships fate. If she still loves u and feels for u, it will kill her that you dont care, but it will also force her to come groveling to you and you will have the upper hand. If she doesnt come back begging for u back, then it's seriously not meant to be. No need to play games, just don't call her, and don't answer her calls for as long as u need to, it'll be hard, but SOOOOO rewarding!

Answer 6

RUN AWAY FAR AS YOU CAN AS FAST AS YOU CAN

NOT WORTH IT --- WILL NOT END WELL -- NOT A TEST -- LOVE IS NOT A TEST

DID YOU HEAR ME?

RUN!!!!

Answer 7

unless you stop this, otherwise you realize this will keep repeating right?

Answer 8

WOW DUMP HER