Hi, again this is for serious people only. I am 21 years old and I never acted my age I hate most people my age and hang out with 30 and 40 year old women. My problem is the reopened thoughts of my old teacher in high school, I feel like we had a good friendship but turned sour when I felt him acting like my peers than an adult, he is 33 years old. I want to talk to him again, mostly not in a sexual way but to close this door in my past. Should I do it? By the way I did have a crush on him but know that is stupid to even follow through, so I don't need crappy answers. Thank you for reading.
2006-12-04 15:37:46 · 14 answers · asked by kissoflife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave the past in the past_
2006-12-04 15:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The weird thing with infatuation is that it can eat at you… you could say it's the reverse of jealousy. Both are dangerous if left unattended.
I always look back at women I'd missed an opportunity with… Sometimes I really kick myself for not pursuing them. You say it's mostly not sexual.. but I think given the opportunity you would help the teacher bang his eraser afterschool.
I forgot be serious…. I would pursue this…. he would like it…. you would like it…. Both of you are adults. I think if you don't ……five years down the road you gotta say I really miss the opportunity. But don't get your head so into it that if it just doesn't happen when you get together or doesn't work out like you expect….. that is going to crush you in anyway.
As for age when my wife was 21… I was 35 ….. the girl in my photo…. that's not my wife…. that's the model for the book cover…. she was naked…. but my wife did take the picture….. it's good to be king.
Mark
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2006-12-04 16:22:13 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of direction. this is ridiculous, shallow, and only downright stupid to have self belief which you may't love by way of fact of your age. seem, once you're youthful, you like your mothers and fathers and relatives, superb? i understand I did. and that i'm twelve, and that i admire them extra effective than all and sundry will ever understand. If i can love relatives, than what takes away the possibility to love others outdoors of relatives? there's no good judgment to it. this is an emotion. maximum experience it. Your age would not result this way of uncomplicated emotion. do you realize how many adults declare they're in love, bypass ga-ga over somebody, then finally end up depressing and mad at them? youngster relationships are not diverse from person relationships, and no count what all and sundry says, it won't replace. you may deny all of it you p.c.. Love is love. some human beings only won't have the ability to attend to that. I advise, why are particular human beings so shallow that they do no longer p.c. to confess which you will love? this is loopy. Are they attempting to look extra mature? extra grown up? Have extra authority? or only seem superb? this is terrible.
2016-10-14 01:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age is that important. In high school, I really admired my principal. Lately I've been thinking that in his job, he probably never gets real appreciation for all he has done. I want to talk to him and tell him how much I looked up to him, so I know how you feel sort of. I say you should talk to him and see how things go. Maybe, now that you're not just a student, you two can actually be friends.
2006-12-04 16:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rachael 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong in what your thinking , age is just a matter of numbers , if you think there is a chance between both of you why not try your luck . It will definately take time to change his character but with love almost everything is possible .
2006-12-04 15:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by BABY GURL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey.. your both adults now! Look him up! You never know, he just may be your soul mate! You can't just let him go! Whats the worst that will happen? He will say no.. and you will go on living your life, not thinking about him forever!
Good luck! I hope it all works out well for you!
2006-12-04 16:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The easiest thing to do is when you see him, strike up a normal conversation about the past. Then, just throw in something like, "It's kinda embarrassing but, when I had your class, I had this total crush on you.", and see what he says. Closure will help.
2006-12-04 15:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by jj_skinner 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it's a major issue in your life,,, then yes,,, I'd confront him...but be careful... that crush you said you HAD... might still be there...and now the age is a little better for things to spark up... so ask yourself... is THAT what you're really after....if it is... then you have More questions to answer... Good Luck
2006-12-04 15:44:31 · answer #8 · answered by Traynor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the past and think of the future
2006-12-04 18:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the old saying goes..." Let sleeping Dogs Lie." In plain English.....don't pursue this any further. Let it drop and find someone else.
2006-12-04 15:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋