I met this woman about 4 years ago, but lost touch till about 6 months ago, and we got along great. I love this woman more that anything. She says that I am not emotionally accertive enough for her, but someday I might be. Should I try to be the person she needs, or be who I know I am, even if that means possibly losing the person I can see spending the rest of my life with?
2006-12-04 15:39:10 · 7 answers · asked by jj_skinner 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should be you and do what you do cause if she likes you she will like you for you and not wont to make you into someone else
2006-12-04 15:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ooooo
No.
Ya cant fake it buddy, or maybe you can for a while, but if it aint in you, it wont last.
tag it while you can, but dont get attached, be ready to drop it when she gives a sign ( like dates with other dudes maybe? )
And from what it sounds like, you are already attached ( this is what she means by "not emotionally assertive" ) you might as well just head on to greener pastures.
2006-12-04 15:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Drag0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have loved this woman for that long, I think you should go for it. But don't change yourself in the process- you'll just end up resenting her for it.
2006-12-04 15:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always be yourself.. because u can only pretend for a short time... and may be unhappy being that person.. wont u rather have someone love you for u... sounds like to me she doesn't want to settle down right now
2006-12-04 15:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by taytay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ans lies in u...if she meant to change u to a better person then go 4 it...BT dun stress urself up..cz it will turn out bad either
..if u think she is worth goin 4 then go ahead...btw,theres is alot more nice women out there..they may not be pretty..bt they are nice
2006-12-04 15:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one thing to grow into one's potential and another to become someone we're not. That is a decision we must make for ourself.
2006-12-04 15:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay who you are thats hw she meet you if she dont like you for who you are now she can either change her way of thought or just leave
2006-12-04 15:43:03 · answer #7 · answered by NETTA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋