Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

My parents left for florida a few days ago. I met a special guy about 2 months ago and yesterday we talked for 4 hours. Heres the thing, my parents think that i am like 5 and i don't know how to act around the opposite sex. So they told him not to call me and i can't talk to ANYONE on my cell or home phone until they get back which is in like two freakin weeks. Do i go behind their backs and do stuff without them knowing? Or do i be antisocial like they are telling me to be? I need an answer and soon. Oh i am in love with this boy and if i don't talk to him i can't see him...ever. So yeah. HELP!!!

2006-12-04 14:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by lovehurts 1 in Singles & Dating

that any attractive girl would have no reason to want to go out with me, just because they're attractive ... for some reason i seem to think of pretty girls as superior people.

2006-12-04 14:50:56 · 13 answers · asked by theanswernator 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've been dating this guy for about a month, and when I'm around him.. I seriously cannot get myself to talk... when I do I get kind of nervous. I've NEVER had a problem like this with any guy I've been with. I almost feel like I'm afraid I'll make myself sound stupid or something, I'm not even like that... normally I just speak my mind and am a wise-*** about everything. I really like him, and it's mutual.. his friends say he talks about me all the time, and I can feel it when we lay together.
He cracks jokes about me not talking a whole lot, but I know I'm coming up to a crossroad where it's either I talk .. and continue on with our relationship... or continue to keep my mouth stapled and it's over.

Why do I seem to get quiet when I'm with him?
And what can I do to loosen up and TALK? tips?

2006-12-04 14:50:37 · 2 answers · asked by football_crazy_62 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to date someone who has previously been married and is in the process of a divorce and is a lot older than me? Is it bad news?

2006-12-04 14:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by skaylin89 1 in Singles & Dating

Santa was delivering gifts as usual, when at one house a beautiful young woman was awaiting his arrival. She begged him to stay and cuddle with her on the couch. Santa declined, saying "Ho -ho, gotta go. Gotta deliver these presents, you know."

Trying again, the lovely young thing removed her clothing down to her underwear. "OH Santa, won't you please stay?" she queried . Taking a long look, Santa sighed and said "Ho- ho, gotta go. Gotta deliver these presents you know."

Not to be denied, this gorgeous female stripped off every stitch of remaining clothing, smiled and said invitingly "Oh, Santa, please reconsider? Stay with me?"

With a pained look on his face, Santa groaned and said "Ho - ho, gotta go. Gotta deliver these presents you know." And with that, he turned and left. Several minutes passed, and Santa re-appeared, plopping himself down on the couch next to the beautiful woman.

"Santa---you decided to stay??" she asked.

Santa grinned, looking at his crotch and said "Hey - hey, gotta stay. Can't get up the chimney THIS way!"

2006-12-04 14:50:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My father just recently passed away from cancer and I've been taking care of him for almost a month before that. (I am a nursing assistant ) No one helped me and my mom take care of him other than my dad's brother off and on. I've been talking to a good friend of mine like everyday most of the time. She never asked to come by to visit my dad but expressed concern and sympathy to me during conversation. She mentioned to me she thought about coming by but she didn't want to intrude in which I let her know she was more than welcome if I'd of known I would have honored her concern. Once he passed again we continued to stay in conversation. My father's side of the family created alot of drama and fuss that as of today my father's ashes aren't buried still. I did have a memorial dinner this past saturday for him to honor his life since there was no funeral or wake. My so called friend stopped calling and answering her phone one day before and as of today I still haven't heard from her why?

2006-12-04 14:49:18 · 16 answers · asked by kc_cuttie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This Girl has got to go! and soon, She was angery with Me when We went to bed because I can not go with Her to Her Parents house over the Holiday weekend, simply because I can not get the time off from work, I woke up this morning smelling that rotten gut smell, I pull back the bed sheet and there it is three great big ole steming turds, and of course She has already gotten up and went Home, leaving me to clean up the poo and wash the bed sheets, this Chick has got some major issues, crapping in My bed because you are mad at me is insane! Dont you think?

2006-12-04 14:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i like to look in the mirror alot! is that being conceited or insercure?!

2006-12-04 14:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by klb13489 1 in Singles & Dating

shes a girl. likes plays. thinking of taking her to see one. dont know which one though...
also likes softball...
doesnt like outdoors /exercise very much...
IDEAS?

2006-12-04 14:49:02 · 2 answers · asked by klynbo2 2 in Friends

Why is my sister so freakin cute?

2006-12-04 14:49:00 · 3 answers · asked by ♥worship♥ 1 in Family

If you like someone and are dating and always talking about getting hitched, would it make any difference if you were givin a diamond ring? Would that make it more disireable?

2006-12-04 14:48:50 · 14 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Singles & Dating

My best friend came to me looking for advice and crying she told me
that she might have of been molested she said that she does not remember but what she remeber's is that the guy who lived at the house she believes it happend at, had possibly done it to her sister. All she remembers is falling a sleep with a guy next to her after drinking water she like dont remeber much she is in 10 grade and she wood have been only a few years old she cant actually remember it happening theo
she dont know what to do and i am the only one she has ever told...I dont know what to tell her to do! So i am asking you!?
Please help me so I know what to tell her!

2006-12-04 14:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by julia l 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love hanging out with my bf and talking to him on the phone. When we are on the phone we have a good conversation for about an hour. But after a while it gets quite, was else should we talk about?

2006-12-04 14:47:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and just recently decided I need to confront my biological father to deal with my depression. When I was born, my mother told him he couldn't see me until I was old enough to ask, and because she took me away from him, he hasnt been sober since. He is an alcoholic and a drug addict. He still never tried to really contact me after I contacted him a few times. Is it bad for me to see him? I told my mother I need to see him and she could help me or I would do it alone, but either way it was getting done, and she is agreeing to pay for my plane ticket. Does anyone have any experiences, and advice, suggestions on what to say? PLEASE HELP

2006-12-04 14:47:49 · 7 answers · asked by College Wifey 2 in Family

How do i deal with my husband, he is so angry cause my stepdads brother is treatning to sue me and im 7 weeks pregnant and hubby dont want a kid, and we barely make enough money to live off of right now. I want the kid, but im scared to stand up to him, he keeps pressuring me to get an abortion and says i will r uin his life, and said he would jump off a cliff.

2006-12-04 14:46:22 · 19 answers · asked by JB 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked a girl at work to have coffee with me. She said she'll get back to me, but no reply so far. I sent her an email, again no reply. I have taken the hint.

But we are in the same office, how should I react when I see her within the office? Is it ok to just put your head down and keep walking?

2006-12-04 14:45:48 · 16 answers · asked by Worrier 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been with her for 8 months and i really love her... she thinkz i dont love her the same as she loves me, and thats a lot. anywayz im not just wanting to do this as a token of devotion but because i really do love her... should i get one?

2006-12-04 14:45:40 · 21 answers · asked by ness2 1 in Singles & Dating

does it mean that she is possibly getting a bit of a crush on you ?

2006-12-04 14:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

Phone calls,and E-mail get sparce results? Open to any suggestions.Desperate mom

2006-12-04 14:45:26 · 3 answers · asked by appanna n 2 in Weddings

2006-12-04 14:45:22 · 12 answers · asked by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 in Friends

Have you ever dated your brother or sisters friend (or wanted 2) with or without their consent, if so what happened?? Would you mind if your brother or sister dated your friend???

2006-12-04 14:44:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We started off with over 6 hours of combined IMing and phone coversations. Met a few days later and had a great time! He said he would call me next day and did IM but claims he fell asleep. Also, IM'd me the next night and then didn't call again. He works an 11 hour day in a field that requires hard labor AND has primary custody of his kids. I do believe he is tired. Later that week, he invited me over and I met members of his family. Again, it seemed to go well. I asked him about not calling when he says he will and he claims he is "bad about that" but really likes me. He also hasn't called or IMd for a couple of days after we were together. We do have plans to get together again this weekend. I am new to dating again after being married and I would like to talk to him on the phone more often to get to know him better. However, my fear is that he is "just not that into me." Is he sending me Mixed Signals, still trying to figure out if he is interested OR what?

2006-12-04 14:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by Dating and Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy used to sit next to me and for a while now I kind of had the feeling he likes me. He makes fun of my BFFL and I. Also, whenever I look his way, he always stares at me. But his best friend sits around me so I dont know if he's staring at him or me. Sometimes, when he walks by my desk during class, he shifts his binder across my desk, hoping I'll see him. Then he'll stop at my desk, but not look at me at all. He even asks me for drinks (like water and juice).

Does he like me?

2006-12-04 14:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Vanessa<3 5 in Friends

that this is the first Christmas without my brother who died 6 mos. ago. Any words of comfort would be appreciated. Thanks.

2006-12-04 14:43:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

4 me

Grand ma got ran over by a reindeer and that one with the dog barking Jingle O Bells

2006-12-04 14:42:54 · 5 answers · asked by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 in Friends

It breaks my heart to see him cry. I dont wanna hurt him. I've tried asking him to move out nicely. I've confronted him with all the "issues" I have. I know it won't last but he's convinced we can work throught things. I don't wanna drag things out anymore.

2006-12-04 14:42:49 · 9 answers · asked by redhead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 14:42:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

For all the dudes that complain that their junk is too small, I have the opposite problem...I have had 3 women tell me I am too big for them...it sucks and I am not sure what to do about this, but its getting frustrating...help!!! what can I do to solve this?

2006-12-04 14:42:26 · 29 answers · asked by Mr. Phister 1 in Singles & Dating

If that's you, go to http://www.petitiononline.com/StopStev/petition.html and sign the petition now!!! If not, email me or visit the petition to find out more on his cruel and nasty work!

2006-12-04 14:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by Who says? 1 in Singles & Dating

i thought this boy i use to like but don't any more hated me and today he said :i don't hate you and, i say i don't hate you either and he says good . end of conversation was when he said good.
what does it mean ?

2006-12-04 14:41:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating