Newly dating guy & have great time when together, but he doesn't call when he says he will. IS THIS A BAD SIGN

Question

We started off with over 6 hours of combined IMing and phone coversations. Met a few days later and had a great time! He said he would call me next day and did IM but claims he fell asleep. Also, IM'd me the next night and then didn't call again. He works an 11 hour day in a field that requires hard labor AND has primary custody of his kids. I do believe he is tired. Later that week, he invited me over and I met members of his family. Again, it seemed to go well. I asked him about not calling when he says he will and he claims he is "bad about that" but really likes me. He also hasn't called or IMd for a couple of days after we were together. We do have plans to get together again this weekend. I am new to dating again after being married and I would like to talk to him on the phone more often to get to know him better. However, my fear is that he is "just not that into me." Is he sending me Mixed Signals, still trying to figure out if he is interested OR what?

Answer 1

Well, I'm sure he's just busy. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't have anything to do with you. Good night!

Answer 2

Im having the same problem with a guy. When I decide to not email or call him for a few days you would think the world was ending. Some guys are just like that. They get sidetracked.

Answer 3

this is hard to figure out. don't sit around and wait on his calls keep yourself busy. I do think that this is a bad sign. good luck to you.

Answer 4

That is just a guys way of gaining the upper hand. It should stop eventually.

Answer 5

I would be really careful - he might just be really busy, but do you really want someone who doesn't follow thru on his word?

It sounds like he might be dating someone else too...

Good luck.