that any attractive girl would have no reason to want to go out with me, just because they're attractive ... for some reason i seem to think of pretty girls as superior people.
2006-12-04 14:50:56 · 13 answers · asked by theanswernator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because I think a lot of people have low self esteem feel this way. Personally, I know I am an attractive girl, people tell me all the time-- in the street, on the train, at work-- but I feel the same way as you. Further, I would love for a nice guy to ask me out, but they don't-- they just tell me I am pretty... I'm told they are inhiibited the way you are. Just talk to them, ladies love attention.
2006-12-04 14:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think that! I've had guys tell me later when we finally end up dating or something that they were afraid to talk to me. I hate that! The other day, a friend saw a pic of me and my ex bf and said, "oh you date the ugly musician type guys." I thought was awfully mean, and I don't even see it. I only go for personality. Looks are great, yeah, but if the guy is awesome, he is already attractive.
2006-12-04 22:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Shanny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would probably be surprised to know that the most attractive women get asked out less then the average girl. And for just that reason, because men feel she's out of their league. Just suck it up and ask, you never know, she might say yes....
2006-12-04 22:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You underestimate yourself. Pretty girls sometimes end up lonely because of the way you think. Take the idea of them being so pretty and set it aside. Find out what they are like. Their personality. You will find that they are the same as you...they just are nice to look at...and I am sure you are good looking too!
2006-12-04 22:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suffer from what's called Low Self Esteem. Don't think like this. I used to and now I have a very handsome, sexy, and sensitive husband. The bad thing about that is a lot of other girls want him too.
2006-12-04 22:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by PHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true. to any superficial girl, a guy's looks have very little to do with attraction. for me personally I don't find a guy attractive until I have met him and found his personality likable. Your personality is most important, and you have to be confident. Girls can sense when you are always downing yourself and it is completely unattractive. Just be a good guy.... that's all us girls can ask for.
2006-12-04 22:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by blackbeltbabe88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry i feel the same way about hot guys but they are just normal people just like you,your not really ugly or something so you dont have to worry
2006-12-04 22:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is typical thinking. I think hotter guys are superior... It is just psychological... Don't let it get in the way!
2006-12-04 22:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Who says? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....exactly... they're superior, and you're inferior, right... there you've answered your own question.... most of the answer are in the questions we ask... we just have to look deeper into the question... and now that you know the answer,,,, you can start to fix yourself.... by asking questions to get the answers... get it.... good luck...
2006-12-04 22:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physically, they are superior people. What's your point?
2006-12-04 23:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋