Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

ok im 13 and im having boy problems... i like this boi and he flirts w/ me all the time we r like best friends. i want to take our relationship to a hole new level. he said to my friend that he thinks it would be to weird.he said that if we went out and it didnt work that we couldnt b friends anymore.. but if he flirts w/ me all the time and acts like he really really likes me wouldnt you think he would wanna go out with me. so wat do you think i could do to make him wanna go out w/ me?????? ohh yeah i think he knows i like him!!!

2006-12-04 14:41:45 · 3 answers · asked by Kia 2 in Singles & Dating

I am seeing an Indian man. (Hindu) Every time we have sex its just like a goal for him to be satisfied, regardless of me. He never satisfies me, or does anything to sexually stimulate/please me. Is this NORMAL for Indian relationships? Please help. Indian guys..(traditional ones) input would be appreciated. He is 53 and has been married once only by arranged marriage.

2006-12-04 14:41:26 · 24 answers · asked by hippiegirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really like this guy in my math class, he seems to like me but what are some true signs that he really does like me more than just a friend. is there something i can ask him to see if he really likes me(besides do u like me)?

please, i really want to know before christmas. if he does like me, i will get him a cute present and ask him out.

oh yeah. if he does like me what should i get him?

2006-12-04 14:41:21 · 6 answers · asked by pinkballerina101 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 20 and and in the army deployed in iraq.....now i met this girl that i can't get outta my head, everytime i hear a love, or slow song i think about her.....am i fallin for her, should i let her know...even though, the circumstances where we are it would be almost impossible to see each other.....
what should i do?

2006-12-04 14:40:33 · 3 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

im so ugly...i dont care if this is a stupid question...my feelings are hurt by rude people but my dad keeps telling me im beautiful...
i dont get it...i used to be okay...now i have acne,glasses and beacuse of stressed i gained tons of weight.
my hair wont listen to me and snice my dad is single father and is poor i cant buy and products to help me to be prettier.i hate it when people staire at me and say stuff and laugh i cry every night and im sick of telling myself"why cant you be pretty?"
alot of people say appearence dont matter but it does i hate miooros and im sick of looking at myself at the mirror and im not going to do any more.I dont want to pitty myself but no one listens to me and i hate it when people make fun of me and i have nothing to say back this sucks and i really hate it i DO think im ugly and i
cant help it somtimes i wish i got a knife and killed myself no one listens to me beacuse they think im boring cuz the way i look
i want to quit everything...and dienothing can make me feel sercure anymore everytime i have somthing to hold on to
my hurt eats threw it why am i even here? why do i have to live like this?
why is everyone eles haveing a better life even thought they have the same feeling?
am i that stupid? dont people ever think in a place where they havent felt beautiful?
what did i do wrong to feeel this hidouse?

2006-12-04 14:40:13 · 31 answers · asked by Grack 5 in Family

hello world, anybody out there want to become my penpal haha sounds lame i know but i wanted to see what the response would be. if not what about e-mail? any objections to that?
by the way the name is stephen whittingstall...nice to meet you.

2006-12-04 14:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by super steve 3 in Singles & Dating

This whole semester I've see this girl on my way to class MWF. I think she's really beautiful. I made eye contact with her today and smiled (I think, I don't remember, I was a little nervous), and I think she saw me, but didn't make any facial changes. She kept talking to her friend that was standing in front of me. I'll only see her once more, if I'm lucky, since it's the end of the semester. I was wondering if it's ok to give her my name and number. If I do, what should I say?

2006-12-04 14:39:16 · 15 answers · asked by Frank H 2 in Singles & Dating

Can you please give me tips on talking to this guy named Cruz. I think he likes me I've been told. There is this other guy named Deago who's his best friend I like him to but do they like me? I have one more question to ask and tell they both stare at me in school and make fun give me tips and if they like me!

2006-12-04 14:39:05 · 6 answers · asked by *á?¦eMo gAlá?¦* 1 in Singles & Dating

I have never been a girl to cry on peoples shoulders and complain about my day.. i have never been the one to cling to my bf untill he wanted a shot gun.. but lately my hubby and i cant seem to stop fighting and everything i do to make it better just irrates him more!!! I dont even know what we fight about anymore... I have never loved someone so much and been so lost at what to do should i just give up and suffer heartache...i dont know!!!

2006-12-04 14:38:54 · 12 answers · asked by tired 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what I meant to say was why do I like 99% of people on here because they answer with good things about my questions.

2006-12-04 14:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He asked me out today and i am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO happy. Were going out now, and i am a LITTLE worried. This guy's longest relationship lasted 1 DAY!!!! How can i keep him for a long time. I am just so excited and happy!!! YAY!!! my first bf!!! What i dont know is if he's into the touchy feely stuff like, holding hands, or hugging. I think i will make the first move, but i just need so help on the actual long term relationship thing.

2006-12-04 14:37:40 · 4 answers · asked by lulu 2 in Singles & Dating

i have liked guys for... all my life. but now, im in high school and im surrounded by lots of guys. im not super picky, but its annoying because i NEED to like someonee. if someone understands me then plese give me some advice or criteria. guys comment too

2006-12-04 14:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

together until 5 years ago he hasn't brought up marriage but i have and he just tip toes around my question.Please give me your oppion on what his deal is.

2006-12-04 14:37:23 · 5 answers · asked by country girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Growing up my father was physically abusive. However, he stopped it cold, but made up for it with a sea of mental abuse. I grew up very lonely and suicidal.

Now that I am a father I realize just how much I suffered needlessly. He is now a tired and lonely old man and I feel badly for him. But because of him I have so much seething anger and pain that it has squashed my life. I'll never have a normal life, though I've done okay in the last decade. But I'm searching inside myself to find a way to be his son for him now and I'm not finding it. Part of me wants to be there for him, but a larger part of me doesn't give a flying **** if he kicks off. I'm stuck.

2006-12-04 14:37:17 · 9 answers · asked by Avatar 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom is trying to save money on the heating bill but she keeps it on 68 heat in the windter and 82 cool in the summer.

2006-12-04 14:36:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my boy friend sam have been dating for almost a year and our anaverser is coming and i dont know if i should break up wit him

2006-12-04 14:36:00 · 15 answers · asked by nami 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there anything wrong with ur bf having a lot of pictures of a girl thats their friend on their computer? I have a feeling that either one of them were interested in eachother before or both ways. I asked him before and he said he never liked her, but i don't know if thats the truth or not. I saw one comment on my bfs page that she was asking him and she asked when he put up their picture on his webpage he seemed to be a lot happier lately and asked if those two things were related?

Should i ask my bf about those pictures or should i leave it alone, or just what way should i approach that?

2006-12-04 14:34:44 · 19 answers · asked by miko 1 in Singles & Dating

but the child has the fathers name

2006-12-04 14:34:40 · 18 answers · asked by mark e 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 14:34:16 · 9 answers · asked by msred19584 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends and I go to this bar for a Trivia Night every Tuesday (yeah, it sounds odd, but it is a lot of fun and an excuse to get out ). Our waitress is always the same, a cute one. We haven't really had any conversations with her, except for the casual waitress/patron stuff, but I would like to ask her out, especially since I just recently turned 21 and I might as well act like it.

What's the best way to ask her out?

2006-12-04 14:33:06 · 23 answers · asked by cory_rudy99 3 in Singles & Dating

well i like this guy named sean nack well all my friends say he likes me! but i just don't see how he likes me when he's around me (rarly) we glances then back to our stuff.how can u tell cause i think he's kind of shy.and well i really SHY.then how do u know how to ask a guy out? i know just ask him out how can i do it w/ no emarassment????????

2006-12-04 14:32:57 · 11 answers · asked by Kallee n 2 in Singles & Dating

You cheat on someone , because u were drinking and had mental problems .Now you are sober, on meds. Working out the issues that lead you to drink, do you tell the person you cheated?Or start over with them sober and working it out?You been married to them for 20 years and 6 of those years you were unfaithful and went on trips with your lover , who knew nothing about your husband.Besides being slime and stuff what do you do, given you have ended the fling with mister loverboy.

2006-12-04 14:31:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know what to think about whether this guy likes me from school
here are the details:
1. He once grabbed my waist by surprise when i was in class with him
2. He occasionaly makes fun of me
3. He tries not to make eye contact with me in the halls
4. He invited me to a totally supervised and controlled party he had, but at the party i told someone i like him and then on the last dance, that person told him something(i dont know what) and he walk fast over to me and asked me to dance
5. He only talks to me every once in a while
6. He knew last year when i told my friend she should invite him to a party she was having and asked me if i had, but when i said it was true, he just left it at that
7. The conversations we have are really short and there is no eye-contact

What should i think?

2006-12-04 14:31:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Slept with means oral or regular se.x regardless of feelings.

I would like to know the real.. Not the "5 means 50" answer

2006-12-04 14:31:18 · 8 answers · asked by Its me 4 in Singles & Dating

that she's starting to have feelings for you?

2006-12-04 14:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by Tom M. 1 in Singles & Dating

Or anything about you that would make me feel attracted to you - male or female???

2006-12-04 14:31:12 · 5 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3 in Singles & Dating

So I had this quick fling with an ex on monday. told my husband about it on the next Monday- today. He has forgiven me. I am not naive- I know that we will be dealing with this for awhile. I can not forgive myself. The thing is that I immediately realized that I wanted to be with my husband and no-one else. So all weak I was freaking and I had to tell my husband today. I love him and sure I could risk losing him but I love him that much. How do I get over what I did. I know that I don't deserve to get over what I did. I still have to keep going. How? I feel horrible. It was the worst mistake I have ever made. From this moment on I believe when people say that they would never do it again. I would never do it again. Help me to help myself. Please! I know that you want to tell my what scum I am, heck go ahead I deserve it. Can you also tell me how to move on.

2006-12-04 14:30:47 · 29 answers · asked by momof2 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do I love 99% of people on here ? I know the answer but want you lot to give me one.

2006-12-04 14:30:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What are we doing wrong?
Shouldn't everyone be in love?
Is there something the government can do?
Can we modify the educational system?
Is ignorance of love the cause of suffering?

BRAINSTORM HERE...no right or wrong solutions.

Give some far out innovative solutions!

Have fun.

2006-12-04 14:30:38 · 5 answers · asked by TransformYour.World 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy used to sit next to me and for a while now I kind of had the feeling he likes me. He makes fun of me and my BFFL. Also, whenever I look his way, he always stares at me. But his best friend sits around me so I dont know if he's staring at him or me. Sometimes, when he walks by my desk during class, he shifts his binder across my desk, hoping I'll see him. Then he'll stop at my desk, but not look at me at all. He even asks me for drinks (like water and juice).

Does he like me?

2006-12-04 14:30:07 · 3 answers · asked by Vanessa<3 5 in Singles & Dating