Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

a little over a year of marriage the entire time it has been so bad! he wont talk to his fmaily around me, I can't use the phone or computer when he is home. we argue and fight all the time. I try to give into hima nd give him what he wants to avoid the arguement but when i do he acts even more controlling. I don't even have acces to the bank account. he says i neg all the time, what he calls me nagging is me asking to do something a hudrend times when he wont the first 12 times i ask. Like throw away the trash you threw in the car port or change the babys diaper while i am making dinner or bathing the other child. he has gotten very botter. he says he is being rebelous right now and screw everything else. he is doing what he wants. He hasn't hit me but i feel like that will come in time. We argue all the time. I say i am leaving he begs me not to go and shapes up for a few days then i stay and he acts even worse. i wont put all the blame on him but i dont know what else to do for him.

2006-12-04 14:05:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think about her every second of the day,
she means more than anything else in the world, i cant imagine her not being here.
I ride the bus with her everyday because that is my favourite time of the day,
I want to skip christmas and christmas holidays and go to school instead just so i can be with her for that 40 minutes of the day.
some days she makes me feel like crap but its worth it because im with her,
she has heart problems, i would give her mine in a second if she needed it.
i am willing to die for her,

2006-12-04 14:01:44 · 21 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and is gf 20 we been known each other two 2yrs now things going well and we have future together now at the moment shes in hong kong because she went to see parents. Anyway last week went my friend's bday party, some girls were there that i dont even know them so one of girl approached me started talking, asked for dance so i dont refused. At the end of party i gave her lift to her home and she invited me go inside her house but i rejected it and took my number. next morning he text me asking me go her house for dinner so i did as friend i thought. After dinner she gave me drink but i dont know she sleepy tabet so got up morning with no clothes and found her next to me in bed with no clothes as well then woke her up and asked wats this, she said'' well we had good time and she said i was great in bed'' so suddenly just left her home.She still text me and call me saying that she wants be my bf even though got gf. Honesty i dont know wat to do, how tell my gf about this. Advice

2006-12-04 14:01:39 · 29 answers · asked by jack k 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the story ...

Had a wonderful 1st date ... movie, dinner, and nice conversation! Spent like at least 5 hrs talking over a cup of coffee. Anyhow, I gave him a "cheek-kiss" at the end of the date. He already asked for 2nd date already ... so I assume everything is great. The next day, he called and we talked for about an hour or so (that was Sunday). So, now the question is ... how many calls should be between now and Saturday (our next date)? Should I call him mid-week (like wed or thursday) to confirm our 2nd date? Or should I wait for his call? Should I email him?
Any suggestion peeps?

2006-12-04 14:00:53 · 12 answers · asked by Nicegal 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just separated 3 days ago and I cant stop calling him. I am the one that moved out with our 15 year old daughter. My heart just hurts so much. He has been mentally abusive, but I miss him so much.

2006-12-04 14:00:33 · 32 answers · asked by eeyore 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 14:00:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my fiance is jealous of my 16 year old son to a previous marriage who lives with me. He thinks I should basically just let my son fend for himself and says he's old enough to look after himself and thinks that all my attention needs to be on him and not my son at all. My fiance has a 9 year old daughter who he sees once a week and when she is 16 I will not have issues about him seeing his daughter and being involved in her life. What's going on here.?? Is this a typical sort of thing that happens?

2006-12-04 13:59:34 · 12 answers · asked by ysbiwg 1 in Family

Well I'm 14 shy around new people, never been on a date and all my friends have. At first it didn't bother me at all but it is really getting to me. Maybe it cuz I am crushing on this guy that probally doesn't remember me at all. See we both went to the same school in 7thgrade but then in 8thgrade my parent wanted me to go to this different school. As 7thgrade was ending he started saying hi to me and talking to me some in the hallways. Now we are freshmen @ the same high school. Since it's been over a year since I've seen him he's probally forgotten about me you know. Now I see him wonder if he still knows my name. I see him like before/after school& in the hallways and @ lunch. The only thing is most but not all off the time he is w/ his friends which would be fine except I don't know any of them and it's been a while since I have talked to my crush. I'm a shy person & don't know what to do. I want him to like me.If I happen to see him by himself what kinds of things should I say?

2006-12-04 13:59:33 · 3 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate both of them...they have NO class whatsoever and have shown the world what tramps they are!!!!!

2006-12-04 13:58:57 · 13 answers · asked by sugar_n_spice 5 in Singles & Dating

My mother wants to know a good way to write a will for her children so her brothers and sisters wouldn't fight over her belongings.Also, can you provide sources where I can go on to answer more questions like this! She really want to know how to write a will that can make her children happy and a good way she can be treated when incapacitated. Please answer these question professionally because Im really serious about my mother!

2006-12-04 13:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by Connie R 1 in Family

My boyfriend and I do not have sex. However, when he fingers me, I often have to pee afterwards, and I find that the fuller my bladder is, the better it tends to feel. Why do I feel this way? And is this unusual? Is it just my imagination?(I'm pretty sure it's not.)
Any insight would be appreciated.

2006-12-04 13:58:44 · 16 answers · asked by cocoxnznz 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friends boyfriend just broke up with her!!! and when i talk to him i feel butterflies in my stomace!!!
i told my other friend that i like him!! but i feel bad because they barely broke up!! so if he asked me if i want to go out with him, what would you do????

2006-12-04 13:58:41 · 6 answers · asked by ilovecolesprouse 2 in Friends

am glad i got looks what do you think if you had to choose!

2006-12-04 13:58:40 · 25 answers · asked by lilly 1 in Singles & Dating

do guys like it hairy or shaven or really hairy?
i am so confused i need help
do i need to shave?

2006-12-04 13:58:26 · 15 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:58:13 · 35 answers · asked by I am rock 4 in Weddings

im going 2 the guy i likes 18th birthday in 4 days... me and him hav been best friends 4 ages... and i dont no how he feels but i want to impress him and im not sure what 2 wear... also its a piss up kind of party and i dont normally go 2 these so im not sure what im supposed 2 wear... any ideas?

2006-12-04 13:58:00 · 2 answers · asked by becstar 3 in Singles & Dating

I am recently out of 5 year relationship but anyway. I am having a problem finding a new guy. I am a firefighter/paramedic so the guys at the firehouse are out of the question they treat me like one of the guys, and I seem to be like that on dates with guys and I try to be more feminine but the last 10 years acting like one of the guys is killing me. Any ideas of what to do.

2006-12-04 13:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.. so there's this guy i like.. he's REALLY sweet and i have so much fun with him.. he's my best guy friend. he can be abnoxious but i think that's part of what makes me like him. NO ONE knows i like him other than my best friend. It's kind of hard because he's never had a girlfriend and so i know he doesn't know how to act with them. but like.. he's a great friend but i really can't see him being my boyfriend.. thats mainly because he doesn't give me any signs of liking me. we laugh together and stuff.. but he doesn't notice me in any other way. i don't really know my TRUE question.. but could i just get advice on this boy? thanks so much!

2006-12-04 13:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I noticed the other day when I was argueing with my girlfriend the other day her eyes changed color as she got angrier and angrier. It was kind of crazy because they are normally hazel, but as our arguement got more and more heated, they got brighter and brighter green. It was kind of freaky but they looked so beautiful as well. Do your eyes change when your angry?

2006-12-04 13:56:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister 18 year old sister was living with me and my wife and kids..And,She is a Herroine and Crystal meth addict I told her she could only live here if she wasnt doing drugs but she did them behind my back..Even though I was worried about her I kicked her out Because I didnt want my kids around her & I didnt want to be an enabler..Now I feel like the worst big brother ever..I dont know if she is safe or warm because it is so cold outside..Should I feel bad?...Should I go look for her?

2006-12-04 13:55:27 · 29 answers · asked by Alex_Bindur 1 in Family

how can i deal with my wife ....she is a "homebody" who likes to sit in the sofa and whatch movies, and i'm a very out going person who loves go out to hang out.....and that drives me crazy...and she doesn't get it...what can i do?????

2006-12-04 13:55:16 · 13 answers · asked by Evil Dude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to write a book and would like to know, what do you think a perfect man is?

2006-12-04 13:55:07 · 17 answers · asked by draconus star 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I bought him a brand new car and am looking for fun ways to give it to him... any ideas?

2006-12-04 13:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by cmu_fungirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it relevant in todays life for a person to not have sex till the age of 40 like in the movie???

(excluding those who not having sex coz of religion stuff)

2006-12-04 13:54:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by SNK1 2 in Friends

Newly single, so out of dating scene. Met a cool guy, we exhanged numbers. He asked for my # first. Its been 2 days. Do not want to seem desperate or pushy. Help!

2006-12-04 13:54:31 · 10 answers · asked by dawndmo 2 in Singles & Dating

from my man tonight should i be wearing my corsette, a pushup with garters and knee-high hose, or a teddy when he gets home from work?

2006-12-04 13:53:24 · 5 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:53:14 · 10 answers · asked by THE DYNAMO FROM OHIO 3 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 and i have had sex with three guys(numerous times!) gave head to 4 guys two of them i had sex with. and kiss many people. but one of them is my boyfriend. and the other i really liked him. and the other was a hook up

2006-12-04 13:52:52 · 29 answers · asked by juju-b 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok i have a problem being to nice. I keep running into problems with girls who say im too nice or just wanna be friends crap. Im not ugly,
and i have a great personality. Its pissing me off because im 24 and just got out of a 5 year relationship about a year ago and im having no luck. And no im not trying to hard because its usually the girl who notices me first and we hit it off fine. Yes im polite, sweet and stuff to them but is that too much these days lol? I dont want to change but what can i do to not seem to nice. this boggles me because i have never had trouble with girls at all.

2006-12-04 13:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by jdmholdemslick 2 in Singles & Dating