Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Im in my early stages of our marriage and I feel like everythings coming to a close. Wife is way too strong minded and she won't even step down to her pedestal. Sometimes she just wanted everything her way and when she doesn't get it she either gets violent or COMPLETELY IGNORE YOU.... as if you are not even in a relationship.

2006-12-04 13:51:19 · 21 answers · asked by Macky 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i found porn magazines in my husbands shelves. (I was cleaning the house)

I'm a little outraged. Should I confront my husband or is this no big deal?

2006-12-04 13:50:58 · 23 answers · asked by penguinsfuletheworld 1 in Family

I am 17.

2006-12-04 13:49:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i went skinny dipping with some friends.... and as we got out of the pool, we got in line to get towels. so i get to the back of the line (my crush behind me), and my crush gets an erection that walk into as i turn around as i fall he tries to catch me and grabs my nipples, he now wants to go out. WHAT DO I DO?

2006-12-04 13:48:57 · 15 answers · asked by hannah w 1 in Singles & Dating

My bff always flirts with my crush. i tell her to stop and then she says she isn't flirting with him. I hate it and she always does it right in front of me. And when i just told her that i liked him she started flirting with him more. Then she told me she might have a crush on him. What should i do please help!!!!!!!?????????

2006-12-04 13:48:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:47:50 · 2 answers · asked by chinchin 1 in Singles & Dating

should i put my picture instead of my avatar or what

2006-12-04 13:47:42 · 7 answers · asked by Orlando 3 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend and i planned to have a party this Friday, so we sent out invitations, but now she has a family party that same day up north at her dad's house, so we tried to change our party to a different day, but none of the days work for me. So i told her i was just going to have it and i hope that she has fun at her family party. Now i think that she is a little bit mad at me. I could tell by her voice on the phone. What should I do!?

2006-12-04 13:47:41 · 6 answers · asked by *~*crazy hair 14*~* 2 in Friends

ok, i like this guy and he is kind of dorky but we are always talking and stuff. Like today i was walking down the hall and talking kind of loud to a friend avout somthing i forgot (he was standing along the hallway) and all of a sudden he asked, "whats the matter?'. He is in the group that i sit with at lunch and he is always hiding my lanyard and taking my food and crap. do you think he is just being friendly or what? what should i do?

2006-12-04 13:47:15 · 4 answers · asked by Catie Marie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex who i would love to keep as a friend, but im married now...should i ???

2006-12-04 13:47:00 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-bf has been an absolute a**-h*** and totally immature after our relationship ended and I didn't even break up with him he broke up with me!!! He yelled at me cussed me out told me he was sick of me (this was 3 weeks after we broke up) and now he treats me like s*** spreads rumors about me tells everyone else how he can't stand me and then flirts with girls right in front of me. I'm so sick of his s*** and I want to let go of the situation because I know hating someone isn't good for me. Any advice?

And It's not like I'm following him around either first I just let it go then I confronted him and now I just ignore him.

2006-12-04 13:46:09 · 3 answers · asked by loved16 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't seem to shake this depression state--God I miss my mother soo much-It only been 3 months.I find myself always having crying spells. Some days I don't want to get out of bed and go to work.But I know I have to. I live with my finance' --he dosen't help me at all -- he's constanly saying negatives things to me. I always find myself all alone.When he's home he's not home. I tried over and over again to let hime know I really need him right now. But all he do is turn his back on me. All I want is a kind word from time to time.I take care of him very well. Now I need him to take care of me right now.He just won't do it.I tried of crying myself to sleep,I'm tried of feeling and being alone.I ache for just a hug or some kind words.I'm an excellent mother of two wonderful children they both are in college-my son is in his last year and my daughter is in her 2nd year.Thanks everybody for listening

2006-12-04 13:45:42 · 13 answers · asked by CAROLYN B 1 in Friends

there's this junior that i really like and he thinks im cute [im a freshman], and his friends tell me he talks about me and how cute i am and stuff. We talk a lot on the phone and the internet and at school sometimes, and i want to ask him to a dance on this saturday, but i dont know how!! please help! i dont think he's going to ask me, because my friend that is friends with him said that he "doesnt ask girls"

2006-12-04 13:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by R 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so there's this guy i have a crush on and he knows it, and i was talking to my group leader and he was standing in front of us with his back to us so i whispered to her, 'hey look there he is', and she said in a voice loud enough so he could hear, 'quit looking at him', and i wasn't looking at him, but i all of a sudden heard him say 'yea' so i looked up and he's looking right at me with this adorable smile on his face and i was just shocked cause he has never said something to me like that without me having said something to him first so i think i smiled a little bit back but then i had to look away cause he has these eyes that just, oh my gosh, they're just.... okay so what does that mean. and also my friend noticed his friend point me out to him one day and he turned and looked at me and just said 'oh'. is that a 'oh wow there she is' or is that a ' oh, ewww'.

2006-12-04 13:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by hezcute 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm not mad...he seemed embarrassed, poor guy. is it normal? did i just, well, turn him on..?

2006-12-04 13:44:18 · 24 answers · asked by skigrrl66 3 in Singles & Dating

My last boyfriend and I decided that even though our relationship crashed and burned we would still be friends. However, he stood me up on our first friendship outing.... so I decided that I really need to move on. He would call occasionally, but not say much except how sorry he is for our relationship falling apart (his mistakes). I didnt see why I should call him post-breakup, so I didnt. He always called me.

We stopped talking for a while (he stopped calling for about 3 months), and all out the blue he starts IMing and calling me, and we made plans to hang out... again. And again, he stood me up!!!!

Yesterday he IMed me (2 weeks later) and he says he's a lousy person, etc...

What is wrong with him?????

*BTW: Were in our 20s, not teens.

2006-12-04 13:44:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we haven't been going out for very long at all, so should I get him anything? I'm just going to one friend party (which is going to be a tame party) should I ask him to go, even though i know if he does he's going to bored?

2006-12-04 13:44:13 · 2 answers · asked by slyshewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by ellie m 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i talk to a girl i like, whom ive never talked too, and not look like a stalker?

2006-12-04 13:43:19 · 14 answers · asked by tdubbya01 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl is a smart girl. She is a good girl. She wants to be better. So we hop in the car and take a ride down the rode. On the hood of my mind I see something good. I only fight guys who take pride in the low. I only see women who know the goodie way to go. I just got a dog. His word is out of site. I call him my pups. He is brown and some light... gray. No, I do have so many questions. So many questions. But I am just biding my time. You see.... its on my side. My girl falls for me more every day and so do I. I fall for her alot. At the beginning it wasn't that way. She wouldn't even speak to me. Then I stopped shaving certain areas of my body and she started noticing me. Now I HAVE HER!!!

2006-12-04 13:43:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I like this girl, and me and her are pretty good friends (we work together) and I think she might like me, and i want to ask her out but im worried that if im totally wrong and she dosent like me at all that way, then everything between us will be aquard as hell.
So here are my hints:

I make her laugh a lot by just being normal me. I dont try to be funny and sometimes i dont get why she thinks its so funny but she laughs a lot.

Sometimes she will get in my way on purpose and block me when i try to get by which is cute because then i just walk into her. I think she might want me to do that, because then when i walk into her she pushes me with her hands on my stomach, instead of like my sholders or something, almost like she wants to feel my stomach. Then one time when she did it, she was pushing me backwards and i was letting her push me backwards and she was like "do you have a 6 pack?" and i was like "yeah" and she said "Do you?" and i said "Yeaaaaa" I have more dnt aswr yt

2006-12-04 13:42:55 · 2 answers · asked by Fernesta 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:40:33 · 22 answers · asked by Gaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work with these guys that are always picking on me. They will always say stuff like "oh you make our work look good.." or "where is your boyfriend? those guys are checking you out.." or they will run up to scare me, throw stuff at me, poke my back or sides, say sexual innuendos, laugh at me when they are all together, etc. They know I am a "good girl" and I don't do that kinda stuff. So, The more "flustered" I get the more they laugh. WHY?! One of them told me that I was "fun" to pick on. What makes a girl fun to pick on and others not? And why am I being teased??

2006-12-04 13:40:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy thinks im his freind and wont leave me alone i dont know how to tell him i dont like him

2006-12-04 13:40:07 · 4 answers · asked by AshiLoo(= 2 in Friends

2006-12-04 13:39:25 · 11 answers · asked by T8er-tot 1 in Singles & Dating

hes my life im in pa him in fl and he hasent talked tonme for a month

2006-12-04 13:39:19 · 7 answers · asked by Helena K 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so.... i am 12 going on 13 and am very shy. I wanna get involved with some type of sport because all my friends have something tht they r soo good at to talk about and i don't. What is an easy sport to learn and take up? And, am i too old to take up gymnastics if i have no experience?

2006-12-04 13:39:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 13:38:47 · 20 answers · asked by icy 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's a given right that my fiance open all my mail, read my emails and look at all my sms messages?

2006-12-04 13:37:49 · 30 answers · asked by ysbiwg 1 in Other - Family & Relationships