there's this junior that i really like and he thinks im cute [im a freshman], and his friends tell me he talks about me and how cute i am and stuff. We talk a lot on the phone and the internet and at school sometimes, and i want to ask him to a dance on this saturday, but i dont know how!! please help! i dont think he's going to ask me, because my friend that is friends with him said that he "doesnt ask girls"
2006-12-04 13:45:05 · 8 answers · asked by R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to this guy, strike up a conversation about anything then eventually start to talk about the dance. Scope him out in exactly what hes doing just to make sure he hasnt got anything planned for saturday and maybe even say to him that your going with a few friends and you havent got a date as of yet. Tell him really casually "a few friends are going to the dance, if your not doing anything on saturday you should come with me/us" that way he doesnt feel intimidated, you get a date and the problem is solved!
2006-12-04 13:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what! he probably cant dance that well. Just tell him how badly you want to go to this dance and that you want to go with him because you know that he would be a lot of fun. Also add in how you hate it when some strange guy just starts dancing with you, so you would rather go with him, so he feels that hes protecting you.
2006-12-04 13:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative and ask him! Just say, "Hey, would you go to this dance with me on Saturday?" keep it casual. If you look scared you could freak him out. Confidence is the best aphrodisiac! you can do it!
2006-12-04 13:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by notblueatall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just go up to his face and say do you want to go to the dance with me like it is nothing serious.
2006-12-04 13:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm perhaps its your body language in case you dont act intrested they're probley afraid to get rejected with their large egos they have ya understand? attempt asking a guy.. p.c.. up your self belief and say hi you wanna dance.. thats what i do if no one inquire from me.. in case you bypass to a celebration dont gown like a hoochie.. gown the position you sense comfortable.. attempt like a tube proper and some amazing jeans or capris.. purely manage your body language reliable. reliable luck female
2016-11-23 17:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you scared to ask him? if you are dont be. ask him on msn or whatever you use to talk to him, be like "i dont really care if u say no but, do you wanna go to the dance with me?" ahha thats what i would do, or get one of ur friends to go up and ask him for you. hehe
2006-12-04 14:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to ask him to a dance.
Just tell him there's a dance at saturday and wait his reply.
2006-12-04 13:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your scared top do it face to face im him i guess.
2006-12-04 13:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by A train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋