My ex-bf has been an absolute a**-h*** and totally immature after our relationship ended and I didn't even break up with him he broke up with me!!! He yelled at me cussed me out told me he was sick of me (this was 3 weeks after we broke up) and now he treats me like s*** spreads rumors about me tells everyone else how he can't stand me and then flirts with girls right in front of me. I'm so sick of his s*** and I want to let go of the situation because I know hating someone isn't good for me. Any advice?
And It's not like I'm following him around either first I just let it go then I confronted him and now I just ignore him.
2006-12-04 13:46:09 · 3 answers · asked by loved16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should do your best to ignore him, but also always appear fine and happy in hisr presence. (This will confuse him. ) Just be happy knowing that apparently he can't seem to let you go. Why else would he be insulting you and bringing you up all the time? Because he still has feelings he wished he didn't.
And remember- when you allow yourself to hate someone, they own you because you spend 90% of your time thinking about them!!
2006-12-04 13:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by rleerose_3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love: Your final statement is the correct answer. Ignore him and avoid any eye contact. He is obviously immature, so give him some slack and forgive him for his acting stupid.
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2006-12-04 21:53:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk! tell him to let it go, your relationship was in the past and just forget about you because he seems to be almost obsessed with messing with you and trying to get your attention somehow.
2006-12-04 21:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋