Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Does anybody know of a wedding going on in San Diego in a week or 2 that we can crash???

How can we get in?

2006-12-04 14:17:30 · 5 answers · asked by MagicSea® 1 in Weddings

My husbands ex-wife has been doing things like calling his phone and leaving 5 to 8 messages at a time reminicsing about when they were married four years ago. He ignores her but this has gone on our whole marriage. She is always on my case and his about what we are doing wrong with their two daughters and he doesn't say anything. Lastly, I finally confronted her about some messages she left for him and as soon as I started to say "listen here" she punched me and we fought in front of all five kids. Finally i got her off me and called the cops but i did not press charges. A few days later i did with my husbands blessings but now he says i was a coward for doing so. Two weeks after this she came up to my husbands window of our vehicle in a parking lot and started screaming things at me and telling me that she will kick my butt again. My husband just sat there and said nothing. He says this is my fight. Is this normal? Would a husband that really loves his new wife let this go on?

2006-12-04 14:16:55 · 22 answers · asked by ctdanea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy i like kinda...im starting not to but i want to make him jealous and regret sayin we are just friends i know i may sound despret or like a lil immature kid but im not its just well i feel like the need to do this...so u please help me and tel me some ways to make this guy jealous he his kinda ghetto ish he trys to act like it lol! and im a light bruntte about 5'3 and im not overweight i guess im just right prolly more on the skinny side than the fat lol! but please help! thanks lots!

2006-12-04 14:16:36 · 19 answers · asked by Brooke H 2 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i was going out w/ him but he went to a different skool.
but then he dumped me saying it was too "awkward" for us to be at different schools. and then he asked out a girl from my school...which contradicts his excuse!!!!!!
so he took me for granted and lied about why he was dumping me.
this was two and a half weeks ago, and i was really pissed at him when i realized he took me for granted and that this guy was lying and making up an excuse.

i do not like him anymore, i am waaay over him. but should i still be pissed at him? (i already am still really pissed at him, but i just want to know...)

so, should i?

2006-12-04 14:16:36 · 21 answers · asked by C♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm the talkative, funny, happy, guy in school. Recently, I've been quiet, private, and not like myself. I haven't been able to eat or sleep and I feel alone. There was this girl I was with for a while and then she gradually stopped talking to me and hanging out with me. I dont know what went wrong. Everything was great, we were hanging out, having a good time and we always talked, all the time. I know, I shouldnt worry about her, "theres many fish in the sea", but she was special to me and I will not be able to forget her. She is all I can think about and I really liked her and now i dont know what to do. I dont know if I have the courage to tell her how I feel but cant stand not knowing what went wrong. Should i just man up and ask? I dont want to scare her or catch her off guard if she doesnt feel the same way, but I dont want to go through life thinking, "what if". Any ideas to make it not akward or how I should tell her? Thanks for the help everyone.

2006-12-04 14:16:25 · 7 answers · asked by b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 14:16:17 · 3 answers · asked by skaylin89 1 in Singles & Dating

alright, i've been talking to this one guy for about two weeks now. i met him at my mom's friend's 50th bday party. he's a really sweet shy type of guy and i got a good vibe from him. i've been talking to him on myspace and everything and he gave me his number. he's not able to get on a lot so he said it'd be faster. is this good? and i texted him a few times and he always answered right back.. should i wait for him to text me first now? or should i just wait a few days and text him again?

i'm getting really nervous because i'm always doubting myself and i get scared really easily.. so yeah lol

2006-12-04 14:16:07 · 2 answers · asked by Alex Chee 1 in Singles & Dating

This is the first time I have ever felt this way and I have a hard time getting over my shyness. Any advice? Because he doesn't even know I like him that way :p

2006-12-04 14:15:28 · 18 answers · asked by moon_essence1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, there's this guy that I always hung out with, and laughed together with. We were good friends for a while, but he had a MAJOR fault. He had a tendency to laugh at other people, and insult them easily. He was also called a homo and gay cuz he acts like a girl... literally. He laugh, ran and talked like a girl, but looked like a guy. Anyways, both of my BFF really disliked him, and told me so. They were saying how he was aiming for me, and how he wuz such a jerk. Later on, I realized that they were right, and began to dislike him. But, the problem is, he's in all of my classes (as if i dunt get enough of him) and theres no way to avoid him. He seems like hes trying to like... get closer to me again, and I really hate it. He told me, omg... you're acting so different. It's like you suddenly started going on drugs" and then he started aiming for one of my BFF. I really dislike it, and he always seems to try and 'laugh' with her infront of me. I WANNA GAHHH HIM SOO MUCH! WUT DO I DO!!!

2006-12-04 14:15:17 · 12 answers · asked by Bubble T 4 in Friends

What do you say to a guy that you barely know but want to get to know?

2006-12-04 14:14:49 · 5 answers · asked by lena89 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone know any good massages that involve the butt me and mah friend give each othe massages and i wanna take our friendship a step farther

2006-12-04 14:13:57 · 3 answers · asked by yugisdaddy 1 in Family

Cuz i am really quiet during school but once i get out from there
I can get really talkative.
I also notice that a few guys always stare at me.
What does this mean?

2006-12-04 14:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been married for 22 years and recently found out my husband has been cheating for 3years, he says i cant touch his city pension or the house that we have been buying off his parents for the last 13 years, they have a promisary note saying they can live there forever but the deed is in mine and my husbands name.
I live in a no fault state (maine). Is he right and if i can get part of his pension how do they go about splitting it up.

2006-12-04 14:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by booboo620 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 14:12:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i now a days i have changed i always liked girls but i was uncomfortable with them before and did not care much to talk to them but i still liked them. However now i seem to get confident. But i do not know what to talk about i mean when i enter class we have like 3min till class start. Also sometimes in the middle of the class i have time to talk to girls but i do not know what to say and start converstation or how to keep them alive

also i want to be coolier i mean like in class. Something like a class clown not neccesary him but i know girls like guys like that so plz help me

2006-12-04 14:11:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that whenever someone asks, how other people cope with having a husband or wife working long hours. Why does someone always have to say something like

"Well maybe your husband/wife doesn't want to come home or be home??"

Why can't some people just understand that sometimes it's just the JOB that is keeping them away and that it's not because they want to be away but that they don't have much choice?? They have to support their families and that they don’t necessary like there hours, but it’s what they have to do to get were they want to be latter on.

2006-12-04 14:11:15 · 7 answers · asked by Danielle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It would cost you around $300. for a good one. Is it worth it?

2006-12-04 14:10:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with this dude for a long time and he keeps telling me that he loves me and i don't know what to say to him. i'm afraid that i am going to hurt his feeling if i continue to ignore his statement and if i tell him i do love him and its not true i'm hurting myself. i don't want to lie to him because that would hurt him too.What to do? help me please?

2006-12-04 14:10:29 · 20 answers · asked by happy_times4_ya 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my pregant girlfriend have been together for almost a year. SHe's 7 motnhs pregnant right now. Im currently living out of state in Maryland and shes in Virginia. I was living in Virginia but came to live with my parents to goto rehab because I was getting drunk alot and arguing with her too much. I havent been to rehab yet because i believe my real problem is that i have a social phobia. I cant be around people that I dont know unless in on Xanax or drinking. I just dont feel comfortable. So ive been up here for about a month. Longer than we expected. Anyways, when we talk on the phone, the conversations are so lame and boring. I never have anything to say anymore besides, how was your day, what did you eat, and so on. She asks the same questions all the time too. Shes always telling me she's so sad that she cant see me. Thats all that pur conversations consist of anymore evern though we sit on the phone for hours. It drives me fuckin crazy. She acts like everything is fine.HELP

2006-12-04 14:10:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me about the original way your man, or ex-man, proposed to you.

2006-12-04 14:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by THE DYNAMO FROM OHIO 3 in Singles & Dating

Anyways, there is this girl that I like. I'm gonna ask her out tomorrow, but I don't really know how to ask her. She already knows I like her and she kind of likes me too. So how should I do it?

By the way, I know everything you all say will go right out the window when I talk to her, but it's nice to know how I can go about doing it.

2006-12-04 14:09:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man tells a woman that he doesn't want a serious relationship because he is busy with career and kids but is willing to hang out and have fun. The woman agrees to this. Then about a month later gets angry because the man isn't paying her enough attention. Why does the man get a bad rap when he was honest up front?

2006-12-04 14:08:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm slightly overweight and "challenged" in the looks department. Unlike most I don't have a great job. I'm really ashamed of my looks that nature gave me. I'm not deformed by any means but women don't seem to be attracted to me. I don't have anything to work with to enhance upon with the proper clothing or such crap like that. I don't have smooth charm or anything either I'm a friggin wreck at 34 yrs old with unusually young features I just can't get hints from women nor do I understand body language either. Every woman I meet wants to be my friend cos' I'm funny but I get the gist thats all they want? I want to pull my hair out!

2006-12-04 14:08:46 · 35 answers · asked by Nikolai 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 14:07:43 · 9 answers · asked by priestrada 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 14:07:39 · 15 answers · asked by MS. Mee2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daily routine doesnt change much. my girlfriend and i see eachother for a little at school and then date on the weekend. Its pretty much the same everyweek. im not bored or anything i just want to know some cute little ideas that i could do that would be simple but say "i really love you and you mean so much to me" Thanks soo much!!

2006-12-04 14:07:27 · 10 answers · asked by lenny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 14:06:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

lieng wife

2006-12-04 14:06:13 · 9 answers · asked by riddleriddleracing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think the youngest a person should get engaged at? Do you think 18 is too young?

2006-12-04 14:06:07 · 9 answers · asked by TeddyGram 2 in Singles & Dating

I dated a girl for 5 months and at the end of our relationship came to believe that she truly deceived me. She never cheated (that I know of) or was mean, but she was mostly just irresponsible, deceptive, and immature. After we broke up, I made a decision that she was not a positive person in my life and completely cut her out. I have not spoken to her or had any kind of interaction whatsoever since the day I told her how disappointed I was 9 months ago.

She's not a bad person and we had some pretty good times when we were together. Is it wrong or unreasonable to cut someone out of your life so harshly just because you feel they were bad for you?

2006-12-04 14:05:54 · 9 answers · asked by crazytodd11 1 in Singles & Dating