should i?!?!?!?

Question

theres this guy i was going out w/ him but he went to a different skool.
but then he dumped me saying it was too "awkward" for us to be at different schools. and then he asked out a girl from my school...which contradicts his excuse!!!!!!
so he took me for granted and lied about why he was dumping me.
this was two and a half weeks ago, and i was really pissed at him when i realized he took me for granted and that this guy was lying and making up an excuse.

i do not like him anymore, i am waaay over him. but should i still be pissed at him? (i already am still really pissed at him, but i just want to know...)

so, should i?

Answer 1

well honey boys come and go like seasons, just be your normal self let him see what he's missing. You have a right to be mad but don't let that take over "you" because you'll get over what he did but you won't forget it, after he get his heart broken a couple of times he'd wish he would of stayed with you.

Answer 2

if you are "waaay over him" then you shouldn't be pissed about it anymore! Find a new boy! There are plenty of fish in the sea. Move on and really get "waaay over him"

Ya it sucks that he took you for granted and that he dumped you, but dwelling on it won't make the outcome of the situation any better it will jsut make you a more bitter person!

Answer 3

Like my Granny says. Trash is trash it gets put out once a week. You deserve to be treated so much better. Pity the next girl who becomes his victim. He;s a jerk, don;t waste any time or thought on that one. Better guys are out there. Now you know what kind not to fall for. Use this as a learning experience. Then you could always tell him thank you and when he ask why you say that, you can tell him it was for teaching you the meaning of trash.hehehe

Answer 4

well, im not going to be a hypocrit (sp?). If it were me I would be pissed at him for a LONG LONG time, but I would advise that you just get over him and move on. You dont like him so just stop thinking about him and move on. Don't kill yourself because your still pissed at him though :). GOOD LUCK!

Answer 5

It's just such a waste of time and energy to feel pissed off at somebody. Forget about him and get on with your life. Have fun with other guys, you don't need him to be happy.

Answer 6

If you choose to waste your energy being "pissed" well, you've made your choice.
You say you are over him, but if that were true, you wouldn't care and therefore not waste your time being mad.
Relax... focus on school and things that will help you in your life... not things that will distract and hold you back.

Answer 7

well you always going to be mad at people who wrong you but your anger will slowly decline as time goes on but your not wrong for being mad but if he wanted to date another girl he should have done it another way like straight say it instead of making excuses i totaly agree with you. oh by the way the guy name wouldn't happen to be jessi right?

Answer 8

My opinion, dont give him the time and day by being pissed at him....you are just feeding off what he did to you....be the bigger person......Let it go and move one....it will make you feel better and will stop stroking his lying *** ego

Answer 9

yes, it's ok to be upset. this guy totally lied to you about the reasons for the break up.

best thing you can do is avoid communication with him completely.. move on with your life and find a better guy who will treat you better. you deserve better!

Answer 10

No, if he was not into you it was best to break up. It can be hard to break up and lying was dumb but it means he was trying not to hurt your feelings. It's called a "white lie" and you shouldn't be too mad because it means he was trying to be kind.