Ok common need help from girls and some guys?

Question

ok i now a days i have changed i always liked girls but i was uncomfortable with them before and did not care much to talk to them but i still liked them. However now i seem to get confident. But i do not know what to talk about i mean when i enter class we have like 3min till class start. Also sometimes in the middle of the class i have time to talk to girls but i do not know what to say and start converstation or how to keep them alive

also i want to be coolier i mean like in class. Something like a class clown not neccesary him but i know girls like guys like that so plz help me

Answer 1

I think you should just be yourself. It's hard at school because people want you to be who you are not.

If you get a girl and you're hiding behind a fake personality, how are you going to keep the lies up. The best thing is to be yourself and let people see that.

If you are talking to a girl just take deep breaths and talk about general stuff, it doesn't have to be anything important. Find something you are both interested in and go from there.

Answer 2

Not every girl likes a class clown, but if you place in some funny/wise comments every now and then they will start to feel familiar to you. Since you see them every day then a chat now and then is a good start. Sooner or later, after you break the ice you will feel more confident with yourself.

Answer 3

Almost everyone likes to be asked about themselves. So if you want to start a conversation with someone, just ask what they did last night, or something similar about them. You can actually just keep asking questions and don't need to come up with much yourself. As long as you show interest in them, most people will start to consider you a friend.

Answer 4

People in general like to talk about themselves. Ask about a new movie or tv show. Ask what they did last night. Compliment them on being pretty or smelling good. Girls love to hear that a guy notices something about them. Makes us feel good about ourselves. Be confident in your words and always find something to talk about...even the weather...just talk and ask questions.

Answer 5

Just be yourself and quit trying to be someone else. You will much better appreciate it, oh, and it is easier.
Much luck to you!

My suggestion about being a good conversationalist is to watch others and read books on this topic to open that up in you it will not happen overnight!.Your just a little shy.

Answer 6

Ok. well first, just don't try so hard. believe me if you're just really laid back and be yourself and not think about it, girls will come to YOU! Second, just start a normal conversation, like "hey ya got a pencil and she'll usually be like yeah and then u just like say yea i like never bring one and just start up a conversation. Another good way is to compliment the girl. Like say hey i really like that shirt or just like hey that's a cool jacket. Girls LOVE it when you compliment them! Good lucckkk!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

just be yourself, talk to them about stuff you like, find common interests. Talk about music, movies, tv. If you are funny it's a plus but don't try to be funny if your not. When you become friends with a girl, then ask her to hang out. Goodluck :)

Answer 8

ok look man i think u should just be urself around them and dont act shy or scarred but do not offend them in n e way i mean if n e girl acts like she likes u then try to talk to her i mean u probaly should just be urself if that works

Answer 9

Talk about afterschool activities or maybe ask about their personal lives.

Answer 10

Just be yourself and soon someone will notice you.