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Me and my pregant girlfriend have been together for almost a year. SHe's 7 motnhs pregnant right now. Im currently living out of state in Maryland and shes in Virginia. I was living in Virginia but came to live with my parents to goto rehab because I was getting drunk alot and arguing with her too much. I havent been to rehab yet because i believe my real problem is that i have a social phobia. I cant be around people that I dont know unless in on Xanax or drinking. I just dont feel comfortable. So ive been up here for about a month. Longer than we expected. Anyways, when we talk on the phone, the conversations are so lame and boring. I never have anything to say anymore besides, how was your day, what did you eat, and so on. She asks the same questions all the time too. Shes always telling me she's so sad that she cant see me. Thats all that pur conversations consist of anymore evern though we sit on the phone for hours. It drives me fuckin crazy. She acts like everything is fine.HELP

2006-12-04 14:10:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

i dont think you two are compatible. are you still talking because of the baby. i think you guys both need to get your **** together and get prepared to raise a child.

2006-12-04 14:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0 0

Maybe you are acting as if you were fine, too. Sounds to me like you need to open up as well. Ask her how she feels, etc. tell her how you feel as well. She has a lot on her plate right now. Think about it...she is pregnant, probably doesn't have much stability, the daddy's father isn't mentally stable and might not ever be around...I am sure that she is CONSTANTLY thinking about these things. Maybe she is internally worried that you will never recover and she is guarding her feelings b/c of the pain she will endure.....just a thought. You need to get some help, quit pushing it aside and making excuses for yourself. Check yourself into a rehab somewhere and learn to not be dependant on other things. You have the potential to be a Great Daddy and a Fantastic Husband...what are you waiting for !!! Go for it!!

2006-12-04 14:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by ilovechocolate75 3 · 0 0

This is exactly why I won't have sex until marriage! Anyways I think you two need to stop playing around and acting like two teenagers and get your sh*t together. This damn baby will be here in less then 2 months and the parents don't even talk. Thats sad. What you should do is go to rehab ( just go to rehab and stop wining ) and them move back with your girl and work it out. At 7 months I would think there's so much to talk about.

2006-12-04 14:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

i think you should take the first step and talk about everything that is bothering you and ask her what is bothering her too... you aren't being emotionally supportive and she's 7 mths pregnant too!!!

your example is just another sound reason why i won't have sex before marriage. AND even after marriage, if either partner is not mentally or emotionally ready. start doing something about your miserable life right now! only you can help yourself... and when you help/change yourself first, you help/change others too. now's the time to proof that you're man enough to handle your responsibilities :)

2006-12-04 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0 0

Pregnancy is very tough to handle. I think you should be spending qulaity time with her now. I can explain why your conversations on the phone are not exciting. Because, this is the time to hold hands, defly not the time to small talk about the weather.

2006-12-04 14:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 3 · 0 0

Your question is the reason why people should practice birth control each and every time they have sex.

So now she's 7 months pregnant and you don't have anything to talk about........it looks like this relationship will be over soon.

2006-12-04 14:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1 0

well get to the rehab... she does miss ulike crazy and why cant u go to rehab where she lives

2006-12-04 14:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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