This is the first time I have ever felt this way and I have a hard time getting over my shyness. Any advice? Because he doesn't even know I like him that way :p
2006-12-04 14:15:28 · 18 answers · asked by moon_essence1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
- For what I think, a deep deep plunge into his/her eyes, with love, it will express by itself. No need to talk, just let your heart works.
2006-12-08 12:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend,
First be honest with yourself and get ready for anything other than I love you too. If you have not told him/her is because you know this person might not see you the same way that you do.
Second, try flirting, going out and getting closer, create a romance or try to. You don't have to tell anyone I love you before a relationship is form. try the above and see if you can conquer this person for you. Don't show that they mean everything to you from the beginning for this might turn them off regardless of how right you are for him/her. Take one step at the time. Remember you are more important to you than what anyone you like might say.
Stop being shy. Look life is only once don't waist your time looking for other people appproval be you and be happy with that. Trust me people value that more than anything else.
My 7 year old daughter had a crush on this kid that was mean and loud. He told her that she wasn't his type I asked her what do you like about him? She said that he is who he is. After a while she told me she did not like him anymore I asked why she said he doesn't pay attention to me I don't need that. Now she likes someone else.
Everyone is beautiful in its own way. I am sure the real you is more fun and comfortable to you. Live it!!! now or never.
Good luck!!!
2006-12-04 22:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ana J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was really young I would make a tape which is now CD/'s of all the songs that expressed how I felt about that person. Then I would give the tape to the guy with a love letter. That was always a winner for me. I now make a CD for my partner and give it to him. I tell him everytime he play the CD he will know how I feel about him. I think that is a nice and romantic jester without having to say it...
Just an idea
2006-12-04 22:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before you vow true love you need his input so you don't end up with a shattered heart! Better find out how he feels and hope he reciprocates. True love shows up in actions, not a hit and run.
True love was a realization for me, not the compliments, dinners,
and vows of "love you forever!". It was the times when I was at my worst and still heard the words:" you're a good person that did a %*&#@! thing and I trust you to do what's right" or " I forgive you because you forgave me and we are bigger than that!" AND MOST OF ALL " I just wanna go old with you, ok?"
That's true love and it shows up when lust is sitting on the couch hollering "hey! get me a beer, we can talk when I have time..maybe." meanwhile staring at your best friends boobs!
2006-12-04 22:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you'd be going out on a limb if you just out-of-the-blue tell someone you love them "that way." Instead, let him know you are interested in a relationship with him and then just see where it goes. If you lay it on the line too early you will scare him away.
2006-12-04 22:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit him down. say there's something that you need to tell him. tell him it's ok to say anything back or nothing at all. tell him the story of how you realized this love and then say in plain words, "name, i love you." He may die tomorrow. YOu may die tomorrow. He may meet a cute girl tomorrow that will flirt with him and ask him out. LIfe is unpredectiable so get over your fears and just tell him before it's too late.
2006-12-04 22:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by hotpockets122000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just come out and say it!! how old are you? it all depends on your age if your 12 you can make him a card or send him a e card if you are 14 or older you can write him a note if your 17 or up you can ask him on a date or to the movies or just start joking and saying it!
2006-12-04 22:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it all you got show your heart and your passion...do your best to have no fear and tell em' like it is its as simple as that be honest and open and loose and you'll get your man for sure it worked out for me : ) gl
2006-12-04 22:17:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Repeat after me....
and listen carefully.....
I
Love
You!
Practice it! It will come out the right moment! I am being sincere! Best wishes!
2006-12-04 22:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find out first how he feels because you might scare him away. Get to know him more, find out what his feelings are and go from there. Good luck
2006-12-04 22:18:01 · answer #10 · answered by brooksta3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋