I'm the talkative, funny, happy, guy in school. Recently, I've been quiet, private, and not like myself. I haven't been able to eat or sleep and I feel alone. There was this girl I was with for a while and then she gradually stopped talking to me and hanging out with me. I dont know what went wrong. Everything was great, we were hanging out, having a good time and we always talked, all the time. I know, I shouldnt worry about her, "theres many fish in the sea", but she was special to me and I will not be able to forget her. She is all I can think about and I really liked her and now i dont know what to do. I dont know if I have the courage to tell her how I feel but cant stand not knowing what went wrong. Should i just man up and ask? I dont want to scare her or catch her off guard if she doesnt feel the same way, but I dont want to go through life thinking, "what if". Any ideas to make it not akward or how I should tell her? Thanks for the help everyone.
2006-12-04 14:16:25 · 7 answers · asked by b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason you're feeling the way you are is sadness. Just be yourself and talk to her...be honest, truthful and upfront. Better
to let her know how you feel, than to go on thinking "What if" as
you have already stated. Once you've told her your feelings, the "ball will be in her court" and she will have to decide what's important to her. Don't allow yourself to appear "needy", if you do, she might take that as a sign and take advantage of the situation....don't ever put yourself in the position where you can be used and abused. Good luck!!
2006-12-04 14:33:00 · answer #1 · answered by AngelEyes In SF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i can't really say that i have a answer for you but i can say that i've been through the exact same thing... except im a girl and the guy did that to me. It's horrible... and it feels horrible. I know that whenever i would try to push past it, it still didn't go away... but thats probably not good advice. I think the best thing you can do is ask, and if its not what you want to hear then hurry up and start attempting to get over it. Only time can fix it, unfortunately. Asking won't hurt, but don't persist after that.
2006-12-04 22:21:25 · answer #2 · answered by skaylin89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what went wrong and be honest with her. Tell her how much you like being friends and spending time together and why you don't do it anymore - was it something you said or did? or maybe she likes another guy? Or maybe she likes you and is all freaked out by the way she feels. Just talk to her and be honest and open. Good luck.
2006-12-04 22:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off if you dont ask you wont know. dont be pushy though if she dont want to talk to you; that is called creepy and stalking.
2006-12-04 22:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note, e-mail or letter.
2006-12-04 22:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her, just go up to her say hi, make small talk, then ask her what went wrong.....
remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained....
thinking 'what if's" aint no whOop....
2006-12-04 22:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
askher what went wrong.. and u are heart brokenn sorry
2006-12-04 22:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋