2006-12-04 13:40:33 · 22 answers · asked by Gaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont be so free with those things he thinks are his on demand you are a woman and usually a good one is in control
2006-12-04 13:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm this is a serious problem in relationships. It's seems once people get use to each other this happens. I suggest slowly withdrawing from the things you are doing that he is not appreciating. People never miss their water to their well runs dry!
2006-12-04 13:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can I make my husband pick up his dirty socks and take out the trash once a month?
Just tell him what you feel honey. Thats the best advice I can come up with. Good luck.
2006-12-04 13:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to tell you that there is a magical answer to your question. unfortunately there maybe nothing you could do. Some people don't know how to appreciate others. Tell him that you feel that he takes you for granted and see what he has to say for himself. communication is the key to most problems.
2006-12-04 13:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to appreciate him more than u r currently doing.Go out of ur way to do little things for him and if he is like me,he will start reciprocating.and even more
2006-12-04 15:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ben S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy...stop catering to him....no, seriously...put yourself on strike here and there (not to the point where you create a disaster in your household). This will make him appreciate the dinners, the laundry, the housework, the kids (if applicable) and if he is a wise man he will realize that he has a loving wife that pleases him and needs to feel that she is appreciated. You are not a maid and should not feel this way. You are his loving partner and you should feel appreciated.
2006-12-04 13:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by jayjay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to "do" anything more to make him appreciate you. He should already appreciate you. Be withdrawn (which you probably are since you are feeling this way) and see if he notices and asks what's bothering you--- then just tell him.
2006-12-04 13:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him do anything. If he really loves you & is into you then, he will recognize & appreciate everything you do. If he does'nt then....there's a problem. You guys should talk about this. Communication is always good.
2006-12-04 13:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why??? Is it less? And if it is less learn to appreciate yourself, (i am sure you are really good) and if your husband appreciates you take it as a bonus. This way you will feel a lot more appreciated.
2006-12-04 14:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, need a little more information. What is he doing to make you feel like you're being taken for granted?
2006-12-04 13:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋