How many calls after 1st date?

Question

Here's the story ...

Had a wonderful 1st date ... movie, dinner, and nice conversation! Spent like at least 5 hrs talking over a cup of coffee. Anyhow, I gave him a "cheek-kiss" at the end of the date. He already asked for 2nd date already ... so I assume everything is great. The next day, he called and we talked for about an hour or so (that was Sunday). So, now the question is ... how many calls should be between now and Saturday (our next date)? Should I call him mid-week (like wed or thursday) to confirm our 2nd date? Or should I wait for his call? Should I email him?
Any suggestion peeps?

Answer 1

Times have changed - some can go with that and some cant. you didnt say how old you are - but i would think an email a couple of days before would be nice - that way if he is backing out you wont be stuck at the lawt minute with nothing to do. Just send him a quick, sweet email - bring up saturdays plans - everything still on? Cant hurt nothing - maybe he doesnt want to seem over anxious...i am sure it is just as confusing for them as it is for us... good luck and i hope yall have a great time (i dont think he would have sat thru 5 hrs of coffee if he wasnt interested)

Answer 2

Man I don't know maybe it's just me because I have been married for 11 years and out of the dating loop for a while but if it were me and I had a great time on the first date I think that I would want to talk to him a lot. I would call him tomorrow. If the chemistry is really there you will always have things to talk about.

Answer 3

I really think you're thinking too much. Be real - call him whenever you feel like talking over an hour with him. If you're thinking like this, you're sorta playing the 'dating game' and I've always felt it's better to be yourself instead of following the rules of this game. I find it so silly to not appear too eager to be with someone. In my opinion, that person should be frigging flattered if I show that much eagerness - I don't get eager very easily. If he mistook it for desperation, then its too bad for him. There IS a difference between eagerness and desperation, you know. At the same time, be considerate to him. Only call him when you're sure it's convenient for him to talk to you. Perhaps you can ask him whether he's free to talk with you before you start a conversation with him, yeh?
Lemme repeat - be real!

Answer 4

I say that you guys should call each other when you feel like it. You get a sense as to whether of not a person is really fellin' you; you both will just get that vibe. When you get into the whole "I'll call today, but not the next day," thing, you aren't being true to yourself or your potential relationship. If a man wants to be with you, he will ring your phone off the hook, but don't wait until he calls you, call him, too, when you feel like it. If its a bad time, he should be mature enough to tell you, and if you're calling too, you'll both get that vibe too. Hope this helps. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Call him on the day of the date. Let him gather his thoughts about you by not you calling until the day of the date or until he calls.

Answer 6

If he doesnt call you, then a couple of days before just text him and say 'r we still good for saturday?' then he will reply yes ofcourse.. and you will say ok see you there xxx

Just shows you are thinking about him..but not too desperate

Answer 7

thats depends when he's advailable some times but week ends
are alot cheaper only . Nope just forget E-mailing too much
of an problem because that is private for both parties have him
call you and just wait only!

Answer 8

Let HIM call you.. don't call him.. this is a try at least for you to know if he still wants to date you again.

Answer 9

I'd wait one or two days dont want him to think your not intrested but should wait for him to call

Answer 10

day before date i would make a quick call just to confirm.