ok.. so there's this guy i like.. he's REALLY sweet and i have so much fun with him.. he's my best guy friend. he can be abnoxious but i think that's part of what makes me like him. NO ONE knows i like him other than my best friend. It's kind of hard because he's never had a girlfriend and so i know he doesn't know how to act with them. but like.. he's a great friend but i really can't see him being my boyfriend.. thats mainly because he doesn't give me any signs of liking me. we laugh together and stuff.. but he doesn't notice me in any other way. i don't really know my TRUE question.. but could i just get advice on this boy? thanks so much!
2006-12-04 13:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should remain friends as long as possible, continue liking him, If he begins to like you, make your move. But If not be still, b/c this particular move can change your lovely friendship.
2006-12-04 14:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you in a boyfriend way but is just too shy to say anything. Try to start a conversation that includes questions like..."What kind of girls do you like?, What is your favorite color and why?" Ask him about himself. That will give you something to talk about and will get you more information about what he likes...even if he likes you...maybe even as a girlfriend. Become good friends first. That will be a good foundation for a long relationship be it friends or more.
2006-12-04 22:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey's abnoxious because he's shy and it might be his way of showing off. If you really like the guy, sometimes you have to take a chance, but remember, if he's not ready to date anyone, then you might lose the friendship.
2006-12-04 22:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tom M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to date some girls before you go after him....if he is your BEST guy friend, then you being his first girlfriend probably will not go well, just be his best friend and try when he gets a little older and with a tad more experiance, at least you his friendship, and that usually lasts longer...
2006-12-04 22:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by jdmholdemslick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like that in high school. He is gay now. I would talk to him openly and honestly. Let him know that you're kind of crushing on him and it's okay if he feels the same or not. Let him know that his friendship is what matters most to you. You don't want it to be weird, so don't like kiss him out of nowhere! Be cool about it and he will, too.
2006-12-04 21:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by notblueatall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, well i can tottally relate!!! ihave a friend like that and yeah are you like one of the guys....or do u still stay girly?? have u ever watched that show "MY BOYS" ?? well you should....it rox!!! and its just like u!!!! im sure this guy like you but ask him....he might say yes....or be friends with benefits.....
2006-12-04 22:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... Just go along with the flow. I dont think he sees you as a girlfriend... (no offence) Especially since you cant see him as a boyfriend either
2006-12-04 21:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he's not giving you any signs at all I think you're the one that's gotta tell him because if you don't, how is he ever gonna know that you like him?
2006-12-04 22:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cardiophobia <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say the best thing to do is to just let things progress. One day he may see you as you see him. or if you have that feeling that his feelings might be changing then confront him on it. If not, then it wasent ment to be and you should move on and stay just as friends!
2006-12-04 22:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him?
Being open and honest can be really beneficial!
Good luck!
2006-12-04 21:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋