i am 16 and i have had sex with three guys(numerous times!) gave head to 4 guys two of them i had sex with. and kiss many people. but one of them is my boyfriend. and the other i really liked him. and the other was a hook up
2006-12-04 13:52:52 · 29 answers · asked by juju-b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just might be. It feels really weird saying that, but you asked, so I'm assuming you want honest answers. :)
I can guarantee the easiest way to get people to stop calling you that (if that is the case) or to stop feeling that way is to stop being so casual with sex (including sexual encounters like oral sex). I believe that sex is something special that you shouldn't just dole out to whichever cute guy wants it, but people obviously have different opinions on this issue.
Decide what you believe about sex, and then live it. Don't let anyone, no matter how cute, slick, etc. he might be talk you out of your morals. He definitely isn't worth it if he tries to make you stoop to his level.
2006-12-04 13:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by xgravity23 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not a whore you are a child that needs to find out why you are substituting sexual acts for something you are lacking in life. If you believe in God you need to pray! Ask God to take those sexual demons from your spirit.
Ok sweets listen up! There are women that start doing this at an early age because of lack of knowledge. The mistake you make today can can stop you from having a baby and you can develop hpv which leads to cervical cancer. Please slow down. Also, you may need to be checked for hiv and hep c. Also, you may need to get a pap smear to make sure you are still healty down there. Also, you dont want herpes of the mouth.
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2006-12-04 22:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question it shows (even though you will deny it, but I was there) that the only reason you are doing sexual acts anyway is for attention- I just went though my own second whore stage at the age of 23 (just got divorced) but I realized I was on the same path that I went on at 17 and chose to stop- If guys will not hang out with you just to hang out, they are not worth your time- If they can not listen to no either, they are loosers- real friends will give you the satisfaction you are craving, but you have to stop opening your legs, or in your case, your mouth, to find out who they really are-
I found all my great guy friends, none after I closed my legs-
2006-12-04 21:59:08 · answer #3 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If they paid you, you're a wh*re. If you feel guilty or dirty, then you're a wh*re. If you tell other people because you think it's cool, then you have self esteem issues. If this is just something you want to clear up, then you're normal. As long as you practice safe sex with consenting people and no one is getting hurt then you are fine.
2006-12-04 21:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by notblueatall 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
um..your a little young to be sleeping with that many men. some people will say yes, some people will just tell your that you are promiscuous. either way, your doing something you shouldnt even do at 16, and your doing it with numerous men. sorry to say, but you would qualify.....you are much too young to even have sex, none the less be doing what youve done all together. how would your parents feel if they found out what youve done?
2006-12-04 21:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by blearghll 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
slow down. stop these dangerous behaviors. if you give head you may as well have sex without protection. there are so many diseases out there. you are way too young to be doing all of that. you may not technically be a whore right now but if you keep up at that pace you will quickly become one. you need to have some self respect or no one will respect you.
2006-12-04 21:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are not a whor* but a love-starved child, who never received proper and adequate love from her father. You are now, trying to fill the void with sex you misconstrue as love. Looking for love in all the wrong places !!!
2006-12-04 22:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say that there is in my opinion a double standard in place for guys and gals. Guys are taught ? sorta to bed everything that moves and a Gal is taught restraint and if you " like it" your bad and stuff...know what I mean ? If a guy sleeps around he's cool and if a Gal sleeps around she's a " slut" makes me mad and it isn't fair. If you like sex than more power to you BUT please practice SAFE.....sex.
2006-12-04 22:08:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
16? that is really dangerous, you ain't a Wh#re, you are just someone whose hoRniness blurs her judgement.
16 !!!! seriously you are setting yourself for a disaster, to say the least.
2006-12-04 22:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not at all. If people tell ya that you are a whore or a slut then smile at them and say that you are getting the best sex of your life and they are not. Being a slut/whore is not a bad thing it means that you know how to give and get pleasure.
2006-12-05 02:54:51 · answer #10 · answered by divingonthemuff 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋