Is there anything wrong with ur bf having a lot of pictures of a girl thats their friend on their computer? I have a feeling that either one of them were interested in eachother before or both ways. I asked him before and he said he never liked her, but i don't know if thats the truth or not. I saw one comment on my bfs page that she was asking him and she asked when he put up their picture on his webpage he seemed to be a lot happier lately and asked if those two things were related?
Should i ask my bf about those pictures or should i leave it alone, or just what way should i approach that?
2006-12-04 14:34:44 · 19 answers · asked by miko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These aren't recent pictures and he met her before me (they use to work together) they are pics from her bday party and all her other friends are in pictures too. He has introduced me to her and i've noticed before that she always sends msgs on his page saying 'i love u! or i miss u!' but i don't know if shes like that to all of her guys friends, shes really talkative and i think she likes to flirt a lot. and he's already taken the pic off his page awhile ago. i know its riduculous to think about this now becuz she recently got married but i still want to know if there was something going on between them, and i don't know y she had to send him all of those pics, its like a photo album, i don't understand it.
2006-12-04 16:19:43 · update #1
People don't save pics of people they don't like............
Should you ask? Did he ask YOU?
Delete pics, delete site, delete BF...........
2006-12-04 14:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the pictures bother you, I think you should talk about them with him. Tell him that you know they are just friends, but having them on his page bothers you. Ask him to take the pictures down.
If he won't, then you might want to consider the girl may be more than just a friend. He should care more about your feelings than the need to have a friend's picture up.
If you don't say anything, it may fester within you and you could end up paranoid over nothing.
2006-12-04 22:44:38 · answer #2 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your boyfriend and he's got some other chicks picture on the computer like that. Is this other chick a movie star or something? then i can understand. If you had some regular guy pics up like that would he be cool if he says yes he must like guys anyway. If you are not comfortable with this trust your instict he probably has a thing for her or does the thing with her. find someone else who will make you their star
2006-12-04 22:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. As about your relationship. Is it understood that you and he are exclusive? If so, then remind him how it looks when you see her picture more than yours. If they they are just friends, then I think it is OK. But your are his girl friend. He has some responsibility to you and your relationship. Appearances do mean something. If his friend is on his website, then maybe you should be also. Have him profess his love to you on his website and have your pictures there. This marks him as your man to the world and if she is just his friend, then she will be OK with it. If she is a girl friend on the side, then she will protest and you will know the truth.
If he knows the pictures upset you, then he would remove them from his computer.
2006-12-04 22:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means ask him about it. If something is bothering you you have the right to address it. Just ask him why they are there. Don't make accusations.
The big question is are you going to believe the answer he gives you?
If you can't trust his answers than you have a lack of trust and that does not make for a good relationship.
2006-12-04 22:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never leave anything alone!! A lot of peoples questions on yahoo are about if htey should leave it alone or do something aout it. Never leave anything ALONE!! Talk to him about it, make sure you get the truth and not some fake sweet talk.. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-04 22:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to him about the way that you feel. Tell him that it makes you uneasy to see all those pics of her and that it makes you doubt your trust in him and that you don't want to have reason to doubt him. If he's a loyal upstanding type of guy, he'll do something about it..... if not, than he just might have a thing for her. And if something is going on there, you don't deserve that.
2006-12-04 22:39:19 · answer #7 · answered by blackbeltbabe88 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no biggie. Probably an ex.
Don't ask him about the pics, and ruin a good relationship (it is good so far right?) Just leave it. He'll start showing you off in no time.
2006-12-04 22:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by elpimpinbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just his friend just ask him and let him tell you the truth if he really does or doesn't. It doesn't really matter if his friend or friends are girls unless he is spending more time with her then you then thats a problem. Or else you are just jealous and I don't think a lot of guys like jealous girlfriends.
2006-12-04 22:40:08 · answer #9 · answered by Stupid 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
from someone whos been cheated on....youcan tell when your man is secretive ...dose he get defensive easily?..seem sneaky?..what about her how dose she act around you?....but also were they friends before you and is he an open guy?. my rule ina relationship..he can keep his female friendsbut im the only girl for him ans the only lips he kisses..he has girls on his pc and i know about them because he has showedme..but they are girls before i came around ....id be really courios why he has recent pics tho and why he is so buddy buddy with another girl.....go ahead ask better the truth than a lie.....and waste your time on a jerk...
2006-12-04 22:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...I'm weird...but if it were my g/f and she had alot of pictures of some OTHER guy ? I'd be mad....why doesn't he have a bunch of pics on his puter of you ? If I didn't like someone I wouldn't have a bunch of pics of that person on my puter. Ask him to come clean about this and see what he says.
2006-12-04 22:42:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋