My parents left for florida a few days ago. I met a special guy about 2 months ago and yesterday we talked for 4 hours. Heres the thing, my parents think that i am like 5 and i don't know how to act around the opposite sex. So they told him not to call me and i can't talk to ANYONE on my cell or home phone until they get back which is in like two freakin weeks. Do i go behind their backs and do stuff without them knowing? Or do i be antisocial like they are telling me to be? I need an answer and soon. Oh i am in love with this boy and if i don't talk to him i can't see him...ever. So yeah. HELP!!!
2006-12-04 14:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by lovehurts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you don't say how old you are. Who's looking in on you. Can you go over there or to a relatives and maybe hang out with your friend. In this day and age, with all the pervs and all the technical gadgets and reverse look up and what-have-you, your parents are justified in keeping you on a "short leash." Focus on what you can do and the upcoming holidays. Go shopping, decorate the house, make some cookies, watch some of the crazy, old Christmas movies and before you know it the 2 weeks will have flown by. It's not the rest of your life, even though it feels like it is. Enjoy each day of your life and what is in it.
2006-12-04 14:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, i had a problem like this before. I can't really tell you what to do. But I think you should obey your parents SORT of. And talk to him online. Don't invite him over, and Love...love is sometimes over-rated isnt it? One second you think your in love with the most wonderful person in the world, and the next thing you know he screws you over. I really think that you two should just talk, plus your parents trust is worth way more then your social life. If you loose your parents trust, then you wont have a social life. They left you alone, believe in you and trusting in you. The least you can do is follow their rules.
2006-12-04 22:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Bob Nguyen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you speak indicates you have a lot of growing up to do, hence why your parents are over protective. Youve known this guy 2 months and your in love? I dont beleive going behind there backs is the right way to do things, why not try proving to them your responsible? Going behind there backs wont prove this.
2006-12-04 22:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if your parents are as bad as they seem they will check the calling histrory for the two weeks they were gone so what you do is go to a friends house and use there phone instead or if you can use e-mail or IM to talk to this guy.
2006-12-04 22:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was with you until you said you're in love with him. Cut the crap; you're not in love. You're a hormonal teenager and you're excited that you met someone who you enjoy spending time with. It's that mentality that makes mature, responsible adults laugh at you. If we can establish that, here's my advice: GO BEHIND THEIR BACKS. Don't do anything irresponsible, but if you're just talking on the phone, I say screw their rules and do it anyway. A little innocent rebellion never hurt anybody. But remember: you're NOT in love. You will eventually LEAVE this guy and NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN. Just enjoy it for what it is.
2006-12-04 22:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if ur comfortable with going behind ur parents back. its only something u can decide, we wont be the ones getting in trouble if they find out
2006-12-04 22:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love a guy that lives in a different country and he drove to mexico along time ago?
and you knew each other for nine years?
how old are you?
2006-12-04 22:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋