My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 9 months, but we've basically spent the past 2 years together every day. Both of us are 15 but don't assume that makes us too young to be in love. I'm crazy about this guy and we've had sex quite often. He's a bit of a troublemaker and a daredevil, but my mom is an English teacher and I get A's and B's. My family doesn't really "approve" of him, AKA we are in the higher class of society, wheras he and his mom have just lost their home and are thinking about moving back to New Hampshire! Is this JUST like the Notebook or what!! I don't know what to do! My mom won't let me move with him and his mom won't let him stay here. We have 3 years until we can make our own decisions but by then he'll probably love someone else. Without him I'm nothing but a suicide. But that's another story. Please spare me the "don't do it" speeches. I haven't slept in 2 days and I'm scared I'll lose him forever. I need hardcore advice. Please and thank you
2006-12-04 16:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by DeAd DiScO 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hard core advice, do our best to make it work long distance. Its hard, but it can happen.
I was 15 when I fell in love the first time. People said I was too young. He was 18, my family did not approve. He moved a year and a half after we began dating, and my folks, and his moving caused us to break up.
10 years later, we literally ran into one another, we were both in bad marriages. Long story short, we got married in October, and the love we had was ALWAYS there, and is now stronger than ever.
I lived a real life Notebook, all the hurt was worth it. Love, real love, can withstand anything, I know.
2006-12-04 16:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first if you remember the notebook they were separated and made it back to each other ,better people and able to be together.if you love him as you say the mature thing is too get a job asap ,finish school and take a quickie course at collage to get you by ,,basic EMT is 1 semester and will get you around 10 dollars an hour just about anywhere.he can do the same .when you finish your classes you can move anywhere you want and be together. i know this seems like a long time to wait to if death is forever.and a plan is better then nothing.if you both have a common goal to get to it will keep your love alive and determined to reunite.please be smart and know that the love you feel for him is nothing compared to a mothers love of a child and what pain u will leave behind.i wish you all the luck in the world and would be happy to talk to you anytime,plz don't leave the world so soon when you have so much more to see.
2006-12-05 00:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by tiffanyh2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most first love doesn't end in happily ever after. I will always have a place in my heart for my first love, Doug, but I have moved on. At one time, I thought I would never get over him. My parents forbid us to see eachother. Although I will always consider him my first love, things seem a lot different now that I'm all grown up.
2006-12-05 14:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its ment to be it will happen
2006-12-05 00:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by tracemiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋