After 8 months, I saw my ex boyfriend at the university campus that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me, he was smiling and looking deeply into my eyes, he kept asking me all these questions. I kinda seemed annoyed. At the end of the conversation, he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye and walked away. He was the one who dumped me 8 months ago. HE was the one who dumped me. But he would still say hi to me on msn but he doesn’t say hi that much anymore.We never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. Since that day on school, he hasn’t tried to contact me, even on msn just to say hi, so does that mean that all his happiness & “let’s see a movie” was fake? I would NEVER ask him out, but do u think he will ever ask me to hang out with him?
2006-12-04 16:34:14 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We only dated for a month and it never went past kissing cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. He was my first boyfriend and first kiss, and I'm 20 and he's 25.
2006-12-04 16:35:36 · update #1
You seem a little desparate in your interest. You seem to want his friendliness to mean more than that.
You have to remember...there are thousands - more than that - of men out there who are right for you and who will think you are special. You need time to grow up. You need time to learn more about relationships...and men. Use this time to meet OTHER men. Your first love is almost NEVER the ONE.
2006-12-04 16:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi to be honest he could ask you out just to see if something is going to happen between you guys, and those kinds of guys they just want to have fun in a bad good to have sex and that is it and if they do not get that they dump the girl and trust me on that. maybe that part where he said the he wanted to see a movie with you i think that part it was fake or he just wanted to know if you were going to go out with him again, to be honest you deserve something better than that, you need a guy who is going to respect you in all ways and that he is going to love you no matter what.
2006-12-04 16:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he thinks he made a mistake by dumping yyou and the fact that ur saving sex for marriage, well if he knows that, it is possible hes one of very few guys like me out there who think with their heart and not our dick, jus give him a chance with a lil caution
2006-12-04 16:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by That guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life honey...don think too much. If he loves you he will wait for you and respect your decision. It seems he is only lusting over you. So forget him. If you wanna save sex for marriage thats good so if he cant handle that..tell him to be gone!!!
2006-12-04 16:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he was just offering polite conversation. I have many times run into my ex's and wouldn't dream of going out with them again unless we parted on good terms (which does happen occasionaly). But it isn't PC to tell the truth, we wouldn't say, "well glad we broke up. I just couldn't stand you!"
2006-12-04 16:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Still Learning 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he probably decides to go back out with you he's probably going to use u and try to make u lose ur virginity but u guys only went out for a month?? move on and stop bein a lil obsesive no offense.
2006-12-04 16:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by ayounglady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya
he prolly figured y try again if ur kinda gave him a cold shoulder
im him and see wht happens if u still like him u guys can just be frnds that will nva hurt
2006-12-04 16:37:29 · answer #7 · answered by jane doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels guilty about dumping you
2006-12-04 16:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, let it play out and see what happens.
2006-12-04 16:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he was out of his mind and must have forgotten he dumped you...much better off without him
2006-12-04 16:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋