i am trying to figure something out to spice things up a bit and to get my husband back from the porn that he watching we have sex alot, and he still watches it if we don't have sex that night he is watchingit the next day but he is almost 40 and i am 25 shouldn't it be me sexually frustrated. and curious. we have only been married 5 mo
2006-12-04 16:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
differnt question now i want to know what a man finds romantic sorry
2006-12-04 16:29:16 · update #1
yes we use to watch it together but i thought he would stop knowing that i am right here he only watches it when we don't have sex the night before
2006-12-04 16:41:16 · update #2
Did he always look at porn? Tell him it's bothering you and why. If he doesn't listen, get rid of your internet or your computer. If that doesn't work, get rid of him. I believe my husband just lusting after another woman is enough for me to be concerned. When I told my husband I didn't like it, he threw everything he had away. I didn't ask him to, he just did it. After he investigated a lot of sex crimes in the military,some involving children, he was definantely tunred off to porn forever. Tell your husband he needs to have some self control. Good luck
2006-12-04 16:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by BrutalBaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if he is watching those movies here's a tip. . make love to him for a week straight and by the end of the week he'll be so tired that you wore him out that he won't want it for quite some time or go play with yourself in a room and pretent not to see him and he'll be so turned on that he can't leave and has to join in. . .
but something romantic. . . .
Cook dinner naked and have a candlelit dinner,later take chocolate or frosting to bed, and take turns putting it on spots where you want them to lick it off from . .it's gets to be a fun little game.
2006-12-05 12:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by jessbthegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been married only five months? Honey, YOU should be having sex every night, lol! Watch it with him and five minutes into it start doing it with him. He'll start turning it off eventually...an ya never know, you might really enjoy it.
2006-12-05 00:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by moddfemm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to an SLAA meeting for sexual addicts. For them it's all about the chase with real people. You might also try some marriage councelling.
2006-12-05 00:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He need to watch porn to turn his sex desire on...! Honey, where have you been, go get slutty make sure he see you and gets turn on..not some porno video...
2006-12-05 00:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how many times are you going ask this question?
2006-12-05 00:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋