My Mom and I went out of town to visit my sister and 2 be there for her 1st baby 2 be born, and she acted like she didn't want us 2 bother w/her and her child. Like she didn't want us 2 help take care of the baby when she wuz born. Her husband as well felt this way, he got pissed off when we picked up the newborn. My mom feels like she wuz unwanted and so we returned. Does this sound normal 2 u guys. The husband didn't like us and could't understand y we kept in touch w/eachother every day, because he said he dosen't even call his family, if they want 2 talk 2 him they'll call him. She's 28yrs old and it seemed like her husband wuz pushing the baby on her, cuz this wuz their 1st 1 and she said she wuzn't ready 2 have 1 yet, meanwhile he cursed my mom and I out continually the whole x we were there and she didn't say anything 2 him, she kept quite the whole x as well, instead of saying something 2 him. Hell he's only 23yrs old @ that & very disrespectful. Haven't spoken since.....
2006-12-04 16:20:51 · 6 answers · asked by shortyb5 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry, this is too much for me.
2006-12-04 17:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was a special moment for the three of them, and they want all the first experience to be with them. Give them space, it's not that they don't care about you two, they just want to be alone for a while and absorb all the newness of things.
2006-12-05 00:25:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let it be... she will eventually realize how badly she behaved and how dumb to push your help away...sounds like he rules the roost and imposes his "family values" on your poor sister...nothing you can do but let her know you are there whenever she needs just a phone call away...
2006-12-05 00:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes abusive men isolate their woman from her family. If she runs, protect her.
2006-12-05 00:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sucks when in laws dont like each other. its better to talk to your sis about it and see what the problem is. now him being disrespectful, dont let yourself and tell him how u feel.
2006-12-05 00:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by PD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be new mother stress or it might be he's an abusive husband.
2006-12-05 00:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋