So this guy I met online tells me he loves me, and how he is a virgin. He's been saving himself for the right girl, which I totally support!!
But he says "ITs not like I didnt have the oppurtunity to do stuff. I've layed naked in bed with girls and have done everything but sex. Something just stopped me from doing it. Then the girl called me a loser and left."
Can a man actually have that much control over himself? Or is he trying to get to me by telling me he loves me and is waiting for the right girl?
2006-12-04 16:35:12 · 21 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy sounds like the former president!
What exactly does everything but sex mean??? He does this and that but he doesn't do thing other thing because he is saving himself??? Does he play "Twister" naked in bed??? Read bedtime stories????
I have to be really careful word this one...LOL! Maybe, he hasn't ever done the deed because he can't....he maybe broken?? Maybe the party is over for him before it ever starts(get the drift here)??? There is a reason why he is being called a loser.....a good reason for someone to insult his manhood like that!
Or maybe it's just a line and he is really a very busy boy.
2006-12-04 17:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by lolasmom19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that just because there are alot of men out there that think first with the wrong head that it takes a caring open minded woman but also a guarded one to weed out the ones that actually have control of human desires. I believe that there are men out there that have these desires, wants and needs but their heart thinks first. The only way to find this out is to give this guy a chance one small step at a time. Remember you can't go too slow if he is really genuine. If he has waited to find the right girl then he won't push or want anything soon. You can find out if he is true by making the conscious decision to not jump into the sack. If he walks then you know your answer.
2006-12-05 00:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy. Unless he's religious, I can't imagine a guy wanting to preserve his virginity for any reason. Maybe he is telling you a story to make you want to have sex with him. If I were you I would take it with a grain of salt. Believe nothing that you hear and only half of what you see, as they say. Watch him to see if his actions in other ways back up that he is really as moral as he makes himself sound.
2006-12-05 00:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by bellyyo62 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok let me give you a break down... Women are like oven, they slowly heat up; Men are like microwave, one press of the button and they are gone. Do you understand what I'm saying? It is impossible for me to believe a word he's saying. Any man in their right mind will be thinking of sex with naked women lying next to them. He is lying baby girl!!!
2006-12-05 00:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes he could and that is very possible. have u every meant this person face to face? If u haven't. I find it hard to believe that he loves u. I think he has already had sex and the guy is just telling u this crap. how many others have he told this to and is telling this to now. i wouldn't by it at all.
2006-12-05 01:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by wishstar28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, a guy can have that much self-control. He is probably saving his virginity for someone that he really loves and/or cares about, and he probably told you this because he thinks you might be the one.
2006-12-05 00:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Zach S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is very weird, but believe it or not there are guys out there like this.....i met a guy through work...we lived in different states and i went to visit after talking to him for over a year....we hung out and basically got naked and made out but no sex....it was totally bizarre but whatever floats his boat i guess.
2006-12-05 01:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can. Been there in the same situation as him many times before, but never done the deed. Its terribly tough, but it can be done.
2006-12-05 00:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, its possible, especially if he's getting oral. Men do have self control at times, we usually don;t though, its not worth it.
2006-12-05 00:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
self cotrol is a mental state...yes it is possible...BUT! He isnt really a virgin, that was some bulls**t! He told you that to get the panties. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-05 00:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by LAKIA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋