Family & Relationships - 4 December 2006

Over 20 yrs ago we met when my wife left me , We dated for over six month,s 2 years ago i called her to have a cup fo coffee togather she said yes. ti was love at first sight all over again? She asked me to move in 6 month,s later ?every thing was so so good? then for the last several month,s something was rong? then she finaly addimitted she was cheating on me? he was 24 yrs younger then her and live,s across the street from her ....any how ????????
SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME ? I KNOW I LOVE HER SO MUCH? SHOULD I ? I ALL READY MOVED OUT.

2006-12-04 17:11:42 · 10 answers · asked by zanderzone55 1 in Singles & Dating

how much does it actually affect things for the woman if a guy is circumcised or not. Like it feels different or what?

2006-12-04 17:11:06 · 17 answers · asked by meagen k 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have a guy take you out to a nice meal or cook for you?

2006-12-04 17:10:55 · 8 answers · asked by Scottyps 1 in Singles & Dating

say you're in a really good relationship. you're both real happy being around each other. you're in your 20's(boy 22, girl 24) and you've got a lot in common and are good for each other, balance each other out and such. You know you'll continue to be happy with each other but you're wondering if you two should move in together. You don't want to complicate things but you've been together long enough that you feel you should take another step getting close towards marriage.Is it better to not live together and then move in together after you're married. how should this work out so everyone stays happy?

2006-12-04 17:10:51 · 7 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

plissss answersss

2006-12-04 17:10:40 · 10 answers · asked by edgar f 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl but I olny see her a little bit in the hall ways and at the bus stop, We say hi and all but I wanna get past just hi.

What should I do?

2006-12-04 17:10:25 · 8 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

If you thought your bf/gf had a mental illness that wasn't being treated (or was being ignored altogether), how would you convey your concern and suggest they get help? I care A LOT about this girl, we've dated for some time now, but, looking back, I have always known there was something odd about the way we relate to each other. I think I know what is REALLY going on (though she hasn't told me). I do respect her privacy, but I also care for her a lot, so I am torn about what to do. Half of me says to let her come to her own conclusions while the other half instinctively knows she will just continue to blame herself for the disintegration of our relationship b/c of this potential condition and, therefore, am almost willing to let her hate me (for bringing this to her attention) in the hopes that she will eventually agree w/ me (even if she never talks to me again) and get the help she needs. What would you do? We are supposed to get together today.

2006-12-04 17:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 17:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by dewgongoo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious if this even humanly possible

2006-12-04 17:09:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jay S 2 in Singles & Dating

Just to see what alot of people opinions are, I am curious

on a first date,
should you kiss the girl /boy
go to restaurant if so , what kind of food
movies
park
etc.. (favorite destination)
attire
etc.. and anything else you would like to add

2006-12-04 17:08:59 · 5 answers · asked by lambo003 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 17:07:59 · 29 answers · asked by der1880 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my boyfriend for about 1 1/2 years and dated about a year before that. He is a great parent and an awesome boyfriend. We share financial responsabilities in our house hold. Recently I asked about marriage. He told me that he did not feel he was ready for marriage. I think some of it has to do with the fact that I am 28 years old and he is only 23. This would concern me if he was not as involved in our family as he is. He thinks that before we marry we should buy a house. I don't know if what is bothering me is not having the "wife" title and that's all. I mean he treats me like his wife, treats my children like they were both of ours and is more responible that any guy his age I know. Am I just not being patient enough, or should I persue the issue more?

2006-12-04 17:07:57 · 6 answers · asked by jessbeth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i realy like going out with my gf, i we are both realy attracted to eachother. i want to take our relationship to the next lvl and have sex but she doesnt she cant decide if she wants to wait till shes married to have sex.just to let you know im 16 she is 15.

2006-12-04 17:07:25 · 8 answers · asked by duaneo 1 in Singles & Dating

Your really cute what does that mean? Ive been call cute by alot of girls in my school and mess around with a few too many. I know what it actually means as in good looking or w/e but to a girl what is cute? What kinda guy fits that description? Also this 1 girl has been driving me crzy. Ive been ditching so many girls and buddies to be with her. She really likes me which I'm sure of but she really dosent know me all to well from what I heard from her own lips when I ask her if she like me. I dunno she has done so much in her life and has so many stories where she has been and the crazy stuff she did there. I never even left my own city or move to a different neighbourhood. I dont know what to say to impress her I party everyday with alot of people which is dumb but fun to me and I really want to impress this girl? She loves to party like me but I want to share more than that in common. She loves the same music as me and a few other thing but how can I build a faster bond between us?

2006-12-04 17:07:09 · 3 answers · asked by bob m 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this girl and she dosent rly know me but my friend dose soo what should i do?

2006-12-04 17:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by skaterr231 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-04 17:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by lolo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-04 17:03:59 · 6 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

In an internet only online and email relationship what would you REALLY do:

Would you be stupid enough to fall for a gay crap set up which may not be REALLY that person on the other side?

or

Would you trust your instinct and believe that person without REALLY knowing all the truth about them?

or

Would you forgive them for all the lies they tell and start fresh?

2006-12-04 17:03:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over 5 years and my wife is still jealous of my married best friend who is female, nothing has ever happened between us and nothing ever will but my wife still gets upset every time I talk to her. How do I get my wife to understand that I am never going to leave her for my friend?

2006-12-04 17:01:58 · 23 answers · asked by Max Warhawk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy and we are friends, at least we talk to each other. My friends tell me not to be too interested because he is "naughty". He seems really sweet when we talk...is it possible he would not, you know, try to do it with me? We're only 14 and I am so not ready for that til I'm like 20 at least.

2006-12-04 17:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Singles & Dating

At the begin of our marrgie I put my mother before my husband, because my brother and my husband got into a fight and my mother threw my husband out. It was my brothers fault when my husband left my daugther and I did not leave with him. Which resorted in our seperation, and now we are back together and I feel he puts his mother before me. His mother is very mean and he knows this and she is very mean to me, and when I asked him to talk to her about it, he told me "as long as she is nice to me and our daugther that is all that matters." What are your feeling on this topic?

2006-12-04 16:58:45 · 14 answers · asked by Mr & Mrs Allgood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-04 16:58:28 · 7 answers · asked by tddybrangel55 1 in Singles & Dating

if the guy is a player and dosent take any girl seriosly how do you make him fall in love with you

2006-12-04 16:57:40 · 4 answers · asked by Ad-adriana 2 in Singles & Dating

...until marriage, and the intimacy is no good? Lots of people say that lovemaking is only a small part of the relationship, but I see so many relationships starting or ending because of it, so it really is a BIG deal.

2006-12-04 16:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

actually we haven't talked yet... but i think we already broke up.... how come you don't want to receive im or emails?

2006-12-04 16:57:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not really trying to prove a point here and honest answers would be appreciated. I do think some women like it, but I also see a growing distance from it, particularly from the younger women, say under 25. Maybe I've got too much Frank Sinatra and Humphrey Bogart in my blood but I think other men from this school of thought have noticed the same. Maybe it's a good thing the romancing is leaving and the newer approach is better.....you be the judge......both men and women responses are welcomed.

2006-12-04 16:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On my friends list it only shows those people that are online at the time...but not those that aren't online. How do I make it show all my friends?

2006-12-04 16:57:05 · 3 answers · asked by Shannon D 1 in Friends

The minute my friends stop talking to me or i havent heard for them in a while i atomatcally think that were not friends anymore. Even after years of friendship i can easily ignore the person when i see them and I even act like I never knew them. Its odd because they never would do anything wrong I almost just dont really care if we're not friends anymore. Plus even when i do hang out with my friends and talk to them just the next day i somehow clear that from my mind and make myself believe that never happened. I can earse memories I have and make myself believe what i want to believe. It really creeps me out. I was just waundering if anyone else expierences this and what can i do to syop it. I am also not sure if it is realted to my anxiety problems.

2006-12-04 16:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'd prefer answers from men over 25, but all answers are welcome. Also, we're Christians, so sexually themed answers won't help me, since we're trying to be good. ;) What are some ways that the woman you love can make you feel special and that you are "the man", so to speak? I want to submit to my boyfriend because I love and trust him and want to make him feel special in little and big ways. Besides the obvious- loving words, sweet cards and gifts, good lovin', what are some small ways that your lady has made you feel super special? What are some things you'd like her to do that would make you feel respected and honored? Thanks in advance!

2006-12-04 16:55:46 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer W 2 in Singles & Dating

On my friends list it only shows those people that are online at the time...but not those that aren't online. How do I make it show all my friends?

2006-12-04 16:55:07 · 6 answers · asked by Shannon D 1 in Friends