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Question

actually we haven't talked yet... but i think we already broke up.... how come you don't want to receive im or emails?

Answer 1

No IM's or emails because I have a stalker. So I stay low.

So you haven't talked yet, but probably finished.
Well, it will be easier once you get closure to the situation.
Then you will start the 'healing process'.
Keep busy though - otherwise you will sit and wonder all day:
Who's he with?
What's he doing?
ON and on and on.

You may even start to feel resentment toward him. This is normal, just don't let it last long. And don't ditz him to your family or friends - don't want to say something you would be sorry for later.

If this has been a long running relationship - then you must be careful of getting into a new one. That doesn't mean don't date - just be careful because you are vulnerable to your emotions.

Good news is, the sun will come up each day - and eventually you will find someone else that you will love and he you.

Family and friends are your best support.