I like this guy and we are friends, at least we talk to each other. My friends tell me not to be too interested because he is "naughty". He seems really sweet when we talk...is it possible he would not, you know, try to do it with me? We're only 14 and I am so not ready for that til I'm like 20 at least.
2006-12-04 17:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At your age, I'd say no. His hormones are running wild. And while he might genuinely be a sweet and interested boy, that doesn't mean he'll respect your decision to wait. Then again, you can't judge a book by it's cover, or the hype surrounding it. ;) But if the question is about change (meaning that it's a proven fact he's a player) he probably won't settle down anytime soon. Best of luck to you girl!
2006-12-04 17:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you are 14!!! Get back to your homework, and leave the boys for girls who should be worrying about this stuff.
BTW When you think it is time for sex, close your eyes and imagine waking up every two hours thru the night, not getting any rest in the day time to catch up, listening to a shrill crying noise most of the day and night, sticking your hands in poop ten times a day and on top of that your boobs are so sore you couldn't sleep even if you had the oportunity.
Now if that all sounds like fun! Have sex
Also, when you do think you are ready to have sex if all of the above doesn't put you off, imagine raising that child on your own because the 14 year old guy is WAY too young for the responsibility of a baby and who says he will ever be, also he would be so irrisponsible you can guarantee he wont ever pay child support.
MMM sounds like a good play hey?
2006-12-04 17:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi_Moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a slime, listen to your friends on this one. don't get so serious when you are young, you will regret it, trust me!!! you have your whole life ahead of you for relationships and the things that go along with it.
this guy is mostly likely putting on a front to make you think he's a sweetheart, but deep down he probably just wants to get in your pants.
find a good guy, not a naughty one, haha.
2006-12-04 17:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready, tell him and explain. If its true he loves you he'll understand.
Dont be afraid to say no, girl.
And if he really loves you, he wont care so much or make a fuss out of it.
Good luck!!!
2006-12-04 17:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out if he wants you, or if he only wants what's between your legs. This will make the differance between you being happy or sad.
2006-12-04 17:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he seems cool, then go ahead but if he trys something leave him. Hes probobly not like that...
2006-12-04 17:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋