i realy like going out with my gf, i we are both realy attracted to eachother. i want to take our relationship to the next lvl and have sex but she doesnt she cant decide if she wants to wait till shes married to have sex.just to let you know im 16 she is 15.
2006-12-04 17:07:25 · 8 answers · asked by duaneo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Respect her decision. Have some patience. Keep in mind that taking a relationship to the next level does not necessarily involve sex. She is wise to decide whether she wants to wait until she's married to have sex. If you consider yourself to be a good boyfriend, don't pressurize her to have sex, she will tell you if she is ready.
You and your girlfriend are still very young. I don't know about the laws in your region, but I don't recommend sex at your ages. In all innocence, you two are still young, only teenagers.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-04 17:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by skyzstar920 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly I think you're both too young to be having sex, and so you don't think I'm some fuddy-duddy adult telling you all this, I'll confide that I'm 19 myself. Don't push your girlfriend on this issue; a girl's first time is generally an important life experience for her, and unlike men we (generally) don't roll under the covers with any partner at a whim. If you care about her you'll give her time to decide and respect whatever decision she makes WITHOUT pressuring her to sleep with you. If you really can't bear the thought of not having sex right now, dump her and find a sleazier girl. There'll be plenty of them running around your high school, no doubt, and your girlfriend will be better off with a man who respects her, anyway.
2006-12-04 17:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by OodlesofNoodles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, move on if she's not going to give it up. It could take years until you get married to her -- do you really want to have to stroke it for the next 5-10 years...think about it.
2006-12-04 17:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by jh361 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK THAT THE BEST WAY TO GO. BOTH OF YOU ARE
YOUNG AND YOU HAVE YOUR WHOLE LIFE A HEAD OF YOU
TO BE THINKING ABOUT SEX. SO IF YOU REALLY CARE
FOR HER THEN YOU WILL RESPECT HER DECISION. IF
NOT THEN TIME TO MOVE ON. YOUR CHOICE.
2006-12-04 17:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no means no dude. and she is 15...not ready to hit the hay with ya.
2006-12-04 17:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..wait till she tells u..never ask her, cause when she tells you, you'll know that she understands you and can rely on you..
2006-12-04 17:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Yuri Ebihara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her and respect her you'll respect her decision, of not wanting to have sex.
2006-12-04 17:10:22 · answer #7 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her she is an oldfasioned prude
2006-12-04 17:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋