The minute my friends stop talking to me or i havent heard for them in a while i atomatcally think that were not friends anymore. Even after years of friendship i can easily ignore the person when i see them and I even act like I never knew them. Its odd because they never would do anything wrong I almost just dont really care if we're not friends anymore. Plus even when i do hang out with my friends and talk to them just the next day i somehow clear that from my mind and make myself believe that never happened. I can earse memories I have and make myself believe what i want to believe. It really creeps me out. I was just waundering if anyone else expierences this and what can i do to syop it. I am also not sure if it is realted to my anxiety problems.
2006-12-04 16:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
- It's not a really friendship attitude. If one of your friends would encounter a serious problem, this one could hardly ask you for your help. Maybe, you are not a very emotional person. In fact, it's the same with me.
2006-12-08 14:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Z O R R O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, are you on anti depresants?? If so, then this is probably the reason, I am on anti's and it levels out your feelings so much that sometimes you can almost feel totally void of feelings. I don't have a lot of time for friends. I am very sociable and well liked, I work with 250 other people and say hi to them all. But when it comes to real friends, I prefer internet ones, they don't drop over and make a mess of your house! See your Doctor honey, he/she is the only one you should be getting advice from not from us nutters and amature psychs here.
2006-12-04 17:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi_Moo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I can't really help you but don't feel totally alone. I lack the ability to feel sympathy. And I know this guy that I'll be really good friends with, and then he just gets all weird and detaches, and I never feel sad about it. I'm just kind of "well whatever", and grant I don't forget memories we had, I don't dwell on them either. But then we'll start hanging out again and the cycle will continue.
2006-12-04 17:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by em_leahy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It maybe related to your anxiety problems although, I am alittle bit like you, if someone doesnt show interest in me, I forget about them. maybe ignoring them in the hall way is a bit harsh as talking to them shouldnt be a big deal but just remember:
"Friends come and go, but family lasts forever"!
I was best buddies with a chick for 15 years and when we went to university we drifted apart and we never thought we would! Now we dont see each other unless its unplanned and we just say Hi and keep walking
2006-12-04 17:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not allowing yourself to be fully conscious in the present closely enuf to be imprinted with meanings -- and their memories. You need to be more INTERESTED in your life, the people you people it with, and what is ACTUALLYgoing on, what the situation ISSS...... THAT IS , unless your imagination is, in fact, the more satisfactory, less boring, option beetween the two. If your reverting to your imagination REALLY does get to where it bothers you, try a BALANCE between fact ann fantasy..... but you by no means have to quit your imagination completely today.
2006-12-04 17:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Albatross 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't gone through this. However, you may can find the solution by talking with a counselor to find out why you want to kick friends out of your life. If you haven't heard from them in a while, do you do anything to contact them? If not, why would your friends want to stay with a friend that doesn't bother to call them and is ready to write them out of their lives??
2006-12-04 17:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by layajean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are not much of a friend if you just forget them while brushing. What's wrong: I think you need to be with them all the time i mean even while you are brushing.
2006-12-04 16:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by WELL R.S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off i wish i could do that with some of the bad memories in my life, but you really shouldnt be doing that with your friends,u should cherish those memories with them especially if they lasted years
2006-12-04 17:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like anxiety problems to me, but im not a doctor.
2006-12-04 17:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by summergirl_644 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it form of sounds like I ignore issues fantastically names that i ought to need to undergo in concepts, yet issues that i ought to need to ignore are completely burnt in my reminiscence banks. i do not comprehend why it works like that.
2016-10-16 11:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋