...until marriage, and the intimacy is no good? Lots of people say that lovemaking is only a small part of the relationship, but I see so many relationships starting or ending because of it, so it really is a BIG deal.
2006-12-04 16:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are totally in love with a person and they are with you then things will work out. It's usually in the chemistry and the communication. Don't worry about it.
2006-12-04 17:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage involves much more than just sex. Read "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman and you'll get an idea how important the other four love languages fills a couples' love tank. It's a good and simple read and all couples should practice it's advice if they're concerned with their marriage relationship.
2006-12-05 01:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I commend you for waiting. Please wait. It is so hard for a lot of young women to claim that. That is something special to hold dear to. If it sux, oh well.. you have plenty of time to perfect it. Besides, I think your future husband will be a lil imperfect himself. You will figure each other out and know each other better for doing so and how great will it be for you to say that your husband was your first and last????? Sex is a small part of marriage. I like the fact that my husband knows everything about me and I dont have to go searching for it with some random guy that doesnt give a care in the world about me. I feel loved when being loved by my husband. I enjoy kissing him and telling him how proud of him I am that he works so hard for me and his children. I make love with my husband in other ways like making sure his dinner is ready and clothes clean and draw his bath water after coming in from the oil field working 16 hours a day. I take baths with him or showers.... we talk about the day. Just tonight he told me how patient I have been and loving I have been to him..... How rewarding is that??? So please..... Just wait.
2006-12-05 01:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by texaslady78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree it is a big deal. If the sex is bad it's a deal breaker. You would think being in love and bonding that it would get better but it doesn't always especially if one of the people has issues they don't know how to deal with.
2006-12-05 01:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very important in a marriage. If there is *heat* in your relationship and an open line of communication, it is a recipe for success. If your care about each other, you'll make the effort to please each other.
2006-12-05 01:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seen Sex and the City? Charolette waited until her and her fiance got married before she had sex with him. They tried and he couldn't get it up. You need to sample the merchandise before you buy it. You should NOT wait...there is no reason to.
2006-12-05 01:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by His Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is a part of marrage. but there is other things in a marrage that makes it worth waithing for in my opion you see wait . my opon?
2006-12-05 01:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a big deal.
2006-12-05 01:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋