We have been going out since last 8 months.But till now we just kiss each other.And when he asks for smooching i dont let him..If i dont let him smooch will he respect me more?Or what shall i do?
But i afraid because i have heard from people that once a guy does all thi things before marriage he leaves that girl.
My bf isnt like that but still im scared
2006-12-04 18:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
smooching means kissing on the lips
2006-12-04 18:48:43 · update #1
im 19 n my bf is 23.
Thanks all for alll your different views.
Its helping me a lot
could you tell me some more?
2006-12-04 18:54:35 · update #2
First of all age depends alot on what he may be thinking/doing... For me and most of my friends i would say that the more the girl makes us work/wait, to be patient for, makes us appriciate it, cherish it, endorse it, and gives you the right place. We are guys, no matter how nice, we are HUMAN... Dont offer or let him take more that you should give... Make him work for anything he gets, this includes kises, for that is how we (guys) will create that emotinal bond rather then think of you as just another girl...
2006-12-04 18:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by IHateTrolls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lime the holding back thing. it lets him know ur not a slut. good thing. but eight months is torture. he is either a really good guy or he has someone else ,look out for that. but anyway do what feels right. plus sex before marriage isnt all bad. if you do and he doesnt leave that means he probaly isnt a player. but if he leaves then atleast you did'nt marry an ******
2006-12-05 02:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next thing he will ask is sex only if he is using ur body and does not respct ur soul and if u r comfortable with it go ahead but if u r not say no and stick 2 ur decision and remember if he leaves u bcoz of this u must think urself lucky bcoz u gotaway from a bad person
2006-12-05 02:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by might 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you listen to everything people tell you, you apparently lack the ability to make your own decisions. You just said hes not like that, but you wont let him feel you up. Sounds like your playing him and he is gonna leave you for your games not cause you didnt smooch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 02:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is based on trust and love. If you trust and love him why not. After all people learn by creating mistakes and correct it based on the matters. If you don't trust and not ready for it don't he had to respect it.
2006-12-05 02:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been 8 months and all you have done is kissed?...then i give him props for even staying with a girl like you for that long....give him more...he has stayed with you this long so he must truly see something in you...not all guys are the hit-it and leave type.
2006-12-05 02:44:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain your views and he should be man enough to respect your personal limits
2006-12-05 02:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must let him. u kno if u dont let him then he'll find u boring and will leave u for another girl. so i really think that u must let him and u must also trust him. if he really loves u he'll never leave u.
2006-12-05 02:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you explain further - what do you mean by 'smooching'?
2006-12-05 02:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more likely to lose the guy when he gets too frustrated getting nowhere with you...
2006-12-05 02:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋