So here's the problem. I love being single, and doing what I want to do. But it does get rather lonely, especially when it's been your way of life for far too long. And I don't think I'm an unattractive person, but I've gained some weight and stuff since I last was really dating. In turn, my self confidence has gone down. Basically this question is for you guys out there. What are some ways to attract guys, what do they like to see in girls when they're out. And I don't mean the obvious things. I just need some help easing back into the dating world without putting myself completely up for rejection. What are some things you don't like to see? I am only 19, and I've never really had a serious relationship so I guess I'm calling myself a newbie to this whole situation. Help? Anyone?
2006-12-04 18:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys love a confident woman. I know its hard to feel sexy sometimes when society is always shoving pictures of skinny beautiful woman is our face. But you know what its time us real normal ladies walk outside and show the world what were made of. Show society that maybe were not rail thin with globs of makeup on and extentions but were still beautiful. A real man will be attracted to a woman for other qualities other then what they see on the outside. But you have to bring those qualities out yourself. When you walk out that door honey, wear a smile and assert your confidence. Do that, and one day a man will turn around a do a double take at you because you'll be radiant and glowing. What man can resist a strong, confident and smiling woman. Now thats sexy! Go knock em dead, ma!
2006-12-04 18:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Bambi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI! some suggestions would be to be yourself don't take the things said on these answers too seriously. If you do it might come off as if your trying way too hard and that makes everybody uncomfortable... so the game plan is to be urself and find something fun to do while going on a date it will loosen you up and guarantee that you will have a good time, so even if the two of you don't click it wont be a total lost... hope i helped a little... I'm only 18 so i kinda know what ur goin through lol.
if you wanna talk email me ...
Jafromm0119@yahoo.com
good-luck!
2006-12-05 02:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm...I kinda know how u feel, with christmas coming up...single people can feel a bit lonely, but hey remember u're not the only 1.
ok back to your question. well some ways to attract guys. I think the confidence is a problem. Like me (a guy) would rather date a girl who's confident and comfortable with herself. I guess its a mental thing (to raise your confidence).
Like u said, u're not unattractive, then all you have to do is show people that u're available. Mmm...if there's someone u like or something, u can try asking them out. Remember the confidence is important.
oh and asking friends to help (if u feel like you're a newbie)
2006-12-05 02:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build your self esteem, always appear neat and talk with a smile. Mix with all kind of people and wide range of activities. Guys like gals who are friendly. happy looking with a pleasant composure.
About your weight, try to lose some, it may help.
Good luck
2006-12-05 02:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u have to find the perfect guy not one who just cares about ur looks
as a girl today guys are looking for the butts and all that other junk so take that risk and let ur inner chick rock ur love world
2006-12-05 02:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by i_am_2dum_2live 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about your weight... If you are happy with the way you look, then just get some confidence and assertiveness...
If you are unhappy with the way you look and feel, then go to the gym or yoga and get yourself in better shape...
2006-12-05 02:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong, wait for right person of ur dreams, one day u will definately get one of ur choice. U should be good at heart. It is internal thing that matters not ur looks or body. Good Luck. for further conversation u can add me to friends list n chat or email me at g_hnst@yahoo.co.in
2006-12-05 03:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by g_hnst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see i basically feel you dont need to change yourself just to get some guys attracted to you.
Be urslf wht you are!
Its better to remain single i would advice until and unless some really decent and good charactered guy comes and asks you to marry you.
Be special to ur husband!
rest all is your wish
Good Luck
2006-12-05 02:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrond with being big its all in the way you carry yourself and the way you dress big people can be sexy to get clothes that fit right so go shopping and keep your head up
2006-12-05 02:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by kustomkleen777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only wrong thing i know that you have done is posting this article? my head hurts only looking at it
2006-12-05 02:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋